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Latin_Lover
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A question for the ladies
Jul 26 2025 09:35AM more by Latin_Lover
Tags: LA, Current Events (All tags)

Why some of the ladies don't rate in a promptly manner?
Is it that you forget?
Is it you're too busy?
Is it because you think you're a Queen that doesn't have to do it?
Is it because you don't know that's a very good PR in your communication with the community?
Is it because you don't care?
Is it because .................?
      
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AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 26 2025 09:38AM     link to this

Forgot,

because Man skills, not the sex part, is sorely lacking and don't want to see me again ?
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SkurferGurl
Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 26 2025 09:42AM     link to this

Awww come on people, being lazy never solves anything.
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 10:39AM     link to this

lmaooo I always rate back. But I always keep my notes and wait for the guy to rate me first.
DelilahRose
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 10:51AM     link to this

I do the minute they leave. So I dont forget and because why wouldnt you?
DelilahRose
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 10:58AM     link to this

Someone took away their rating not sure why. 🤔
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:00AM     link to this

I used to rate it right after they left but noticed some wouldn’t rate me back or rate me months later.
wishingwill
Manhattan Beach, Coastal, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:13AM     link to this

A rating can be deleted if the other party doesn't reciprocate. Given this, after a successful meeting, it would be nice if all parties raced to be the first to be grateful for the opportunity.
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:19AM     link to this

oh I didn’t know you could delete a rate
Fallenangelsinoc
Buena Park, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:33AM     link to this

Yes u can erased urs , but did u ask the other side to rate u ?
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:43AM     link to this

no I’m not talking about anyone in specific
Socalsblz
Orange, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:48AM     link to this

Sorry my comment was for wishing will 🥰🥰🥰

Don’t blog too much
Socalsblz
Orange, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:50AM     link to this

Woshing will
Socalsblz
Orange, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 11:55AM     link to this

Yes I always ask ladies if we can rate each other , and if I don’t get rated , I remind them
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 12:32PM     link to this

I network as soon as I have the time to, usually within 24 hours. What I need to be better about is re-networking old friends... I often forget to do that.


Anywho.. a persons network is one of the 1st thing I check. So I do my best to make it a priority because I know how important it can be for the gents as well as the ladies.

I love our networking system. Although.. not everyone uses it correctly. It's still pretty amazing.

DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 12:40PM     link to this

DR

Maybe they left they site?

maleinocca
OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 12:40PM     link to this

Networking help to see if someone is safe or not , LOVE IT 👍🏼
Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jul 26 2025 01:35PM     link to this

I get the impression sometimes that some members of the community don't know the importance of rating to create a network.
DelilahRose
Burbank, SFV, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 02:23PM     link to this

Dahlia no still active ,saw him 2 days ago. Its fine just weird.
Ruthless_Rain
Fullerton, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 02:47PM     link to this

I don't rate unless I truly enjoyed my time with the other person. If I network them its basically a recommendation to other ladies that he is clean, safe and a fun time
elmariachi
Irvine, OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 02:53PM     link to this

What is she has a booker and she’s not aware of being booked on this particular site? A couple of times after a date an ask the lady to please add me to her network to exchange ratings. One of them had no idea from which site I did the booking from.
bbysr
Ontario, Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 26 2025 02:55PM     link to this

Does anyone know if we can update ratings. I know I have seen some ladies for awhile and the rating is old....or do we want the old ratings as well as new ones
tompetres
OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 03:07PM     link to this

I'm a HX noob, but can offer some insight here as to one legitimate reason a user might delete ratings.

If a user's ratio of ratings given to ratings received gets out of whack, the site's algorithm will cut you off form rating anyone else. In that case, you have two options, delete ratings, or wait for ratings to come in. The site actually suggests deleting ratings to achieve getting your ratio back in balance.
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 03:53PM     link to this

DR - That's weird!

Yes, you can update your networking with someone, usually done after you've seen them quite a bit.


Networking should be based on if the person is what tink to be safe.

I have seen people that I would not want to see again, but it doesn't mean they aren't safe. Just not for me.




DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 26 2025 03:55PM     link to this

^ also a good reason to have the ability to pm and talk.to eachothers networks.



maleinocca
OC, CA
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Jul 26 2025 05:47PM     link to this

Agreed with daliha

Rating should mean someone is safe .
Nothing else 👍🏼👍🏼

Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jul 30 2025 05:02PM     link to this

As I understand we rate in order to:
1. Confirm to the community that a person is safe.
2. To find and communicate with old and new friends.
3. To create a Network so members of the community know that we're safe.
HellaFun1
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 30 2025 06:26PM     link to this

I would like the ability to rate someone very safe from my phone instead of having to log in on a desk top comp.

Just saying

XOXO, HF1
DelilahRose
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Jul 30 2025 06:38PM     link to this

Turns out Dahlia he clicked wrong name. Glad is asked him.
Latin_Lover
Camarillo, Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Jul 31 2025 05:16PM     link to this

Miss HellaFun1 I always rate from my phone.
1. Just go to Humaniplex.com

2. Log in

3. Search person you want to rate and do it
RandyMantooth
LA, CA
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Jul 31 2025 06:45PM     link to this

  • Latin lover, Hella fun is talking about ranking people she already rated to indicate one or more of them are "Highly Safe", shifting her name to the left (or middle, if they have any red) column in their network. This cannot currently be done on a smartphone, only on a desktop or laptop computer with mouse or track pad. If you've never ranked people, the system will eventually do it for you when you have exchanged ratings eith enough people.
  • Blueslides, what the fuck are you talking about?
    literally none of the level 0s ever rate back and now I can't rate anyone like wtf is this bullshit. I'm capped out
    My dude, you have rated four people. Two level zero, a 2, and a 3. One of the level zero and the level 3 rated back. There is no way the Automated Network Assistant kicked in to prevent you from rating new people yet. Unless you are talking about one of your other profiles? Please let us know what they are.
Kelseyforyou
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 31 2025 06:53PM     link to this

Oh, I wanted to mention something kinda related to the topic. I’ve heard a few things from Level 4 and 5 like:
“I only rate girls after a few dates to make sure they’re really safe.”
“I don’t believe in 2 minute ratings just to level up, so I’ll give you the 2 second rate.”
“Please don’t rate me, and I can’t rate you, my girlfriend from HX would be mad I saw someone new.”
Just throwing that out there hahaha.
RandyMantooth
LA, CA
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Jul 31 2025 07:37PM     link to this

All three of those are bullshit.

I suggest rate 2 second on first interaction. When total interactions exceed 90 minutes in person, re-rate 2 minute. You can always answer that you're not sure on the safety questions if you don't feel like you know them well enough to vouch for their safety but don't want to say they are dangerous.
HellaFun1
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Aug 1 2025 07:46PM     link to this

@RandyMan...Precisely! Thank you for clarifying.

Xoxo, HF1
Lauraluvsitagain
OC, CA
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Aug 1 2025 08:47PM     link to this

How come some guys don't ever rate, even when asked as well as reminded? I have actually had my ability to rate taken away because I had rated too many and the ratings I received were less. So, I had to elete a few. Funny part is some of the ones who haven't rated me still see me. A few have said forgot, too busy or don't want to Network would rather stay without any other ratings. So, did not want to level up! Idk
Latin_Lover
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Aug 2 2025 09:11AM     link to this

Lauraluvsitagain because the user's ratio of ratings if you have rated a certain percentage more then they have rated you, you're block to rate anyone, the solution is in your hands ask to be rated nicely and if the don't just unrate them and then you will be able to rate again singe your user ratio is within the parameters of the site.
HelenaUlinova
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Aug 3 2025 06:52AM     link to this

I have ADHD So I forget sometimes.
drummer
Ventura, Central Coast, CA
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Aug 3 2025 01:04PM     link to this

Mostly because bookers are really busy people. 😂😂😂
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