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I’m very wheelchair accessible and flexible! Pm me and we can work it out.
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I'd donate some points to whoever helps that guy out!
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Very nice of you! Poor guy.
OP, is this a permanent condition or can he later regain movement again? I think knowing his age might help match him up with the right person.
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much much much respect for Mz. Peach for stepping up and offering.
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I won't be back in town until September but I would see him then. He needs a spinner!
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Thank you all for commenting.
I’ll PM you Mz Peach (and Marisa if that timing works)
Motorcyclejohn very kind of you. Will keep u posted how it goes.
Son of Adam good points here’s more info.
He’s around 37ish. Tall 6ft Asian. Car accident 8yrs ago. He was hit from behind, sitting in parked car waiting for a tow truck. Spinal cord in neck. Lucky just to have lived. He’s been fighting to get some mobility back, this is mostly permanent. He did manage to stand and took 5 steps leaning on a walker to finally receive his MBA. But he can only really control a couple fingers on one hand, so it’s all just point and click mostly. Requires 24/7 care
It’s been a while since I last logged in and I wasn’t sure how supportive/receptive the community would be, so he doesn’t know his aunt asked me to help find a new provider yet. Apparently she helped him before but it was serendipitous coincidence that she knew of someone. Previous provider moved away some time ago.
Now that I see some replies, I’ll let him know and ask what his preferences/desires are and let yall know so we can all help find the right match. (The only thing I know about his tastes is he had a crush on Ariana Grande so going to the concert was a big deal. But what guy didn’t at one point have a crush on Ariana? Lol)
Thanks all, keep safe.
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Thanks for the details. This helps a lot.
Poor guy. I've heard of so many people being hit from behind while at a complete stop by inattentive drivers.
It's good to know that seeing an escort is not a new concept to him (I thought if you brought up the idea & a woman here was willing to provide for him that he might've been against it).
This is what I suggest: Have him consider the options of wiling partners & when he agrees on who he wants to see & the fee, maybe guys here can chip him so he won't have to pay it? Just a thought.
Good luck & thanks for being such a good friend to him.
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SonOfAdams...
I've refrained from commenting publicly and while I wouldn't wish being para/quadraplegic on anyone being with those who are is actually, a fetish in itself.
Aside from those who just love and feel affection for others outside of sexual gratification, and may be in a relationship with someone who is in that state.
"THERE'S AN ASS FOR EVERY SEAT." Is true, and abundantly so.
Savior/caretaker complex plays into it pretty heavily if we're looking at it from a purely fetish standpoint.
Personally speaking when I watched 'Saved' I thought I was coming for Mandy Moore being an uptight bitch (something about an insane religious woman does it for me a little. Chalk it up to the catholic school.) but found a new niche with Culkin being a nihilist in a wheelchair sooooo.... yeah.
Let's not discount the fact that there are women, or men, who are actively interested in people with all sorts of disabilities and this dude isn't a total charity case.
There are about a million ways to experiment sexually even without the ability to get an erection and truly depends on the person and their condition, but lawd don't underestimate the prostate 
What happened to him is fucking tragic. I do believe a provider (the right one, non medically speaking) could help him gain the confidence to meet a woman who is simply interested in him as a person as well, sans transaction.
Truly and genuinely, if you ever feel alone and unlovable, there most certainly is a person out there in the world who will not only accept and love you, but will do so with gusto. It just takes having the confidence to approach them. Or even better yet, putting yourself out there enough in the world so that they're able to approach you. You might be exactly what they're looking for
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You sound like a great guy son of Adam. Hope to meet u irl some time.
Appreciate the sentiment re pitching in, but he wouldn’t want to be a charity case. He can manage. Tho he is looking for a position to exercise his newly minted MBA skills.
As for the other comments, while he has limited control of his arms and legs, lucky for him, as I understand it, his equipment still works.
I did ask age pref and he’d prefer under 30 (like the lovely Helena) and would prefer natural beauty with no or limited ink. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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Before starting in the business in 2021 I was a caretaker. One of my first clients in Florida was a guy in an assisted living place. His son set up the encounter. Definitely not the same type of encounter that one would experience with a 30-year-old but an encounter nevertheless.
These gentlemen with physical impairments just want to feel some flesh. They just want someting that makes them feel alive! I am always happy to assist them.
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dgoldn,
What have you done?! I have carefully cultivated a persona as The Koala God who does not suffer mere mortals easily! Calling me "a great guy" endangers that reputation so I must ask you to retract your misguided statement! 
Seriously, the heroes here are you & your friend who tries to persevere against the odds in both his life and career. Good luck to both of you.
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I'd love to give him a time of his life sweet, sensual , and gentle unless he likes it a bit rough 😜
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I am not making a joke but I feel it’s necessary for the partner to know. Is everything working for him down south?
Also, I agree, he needs a thin spinner.
I wish your young friend well.
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I can accommodate 😘
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I had a client with no legs…. I don’t think he particularly needs a spinner, just someone that knows what they are doing.
I think there are a lot of girls that would understand and be willing to treat him special.
Me included
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Appreciate all the positive comments.
Given his age he'd prefer providers under-30. Any referrals would be appreciated.
I'll be seeing him this weekend and will show him pics of the few under-30's who have reached out or responded.
Be Safe out there!
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dgoldn, Hey, would love an update on how it went!
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This restores my faith in humanity ❤️
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The pleasure of being able to bring others pleasure does NOT discriminate! Nor do I!
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I haven't commented on a blog in years, but this one struck me. It's nice to see despite all the trolls on here, that there are still decent people who care. Please keep us updated. I am impressed by your friend, who despite what happened, still wants to live his life to the fullest! I hope I would have friends like you to help me out like this should anything like that ever happen to me! Keeping notes on the providers responding to in case I ever have to help someone the same way!
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Just seeing this blog. I would love to assist him in any way.
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Unbelievable blog. I hope this works out. To the OP and the ladies that are willing, you are the best of the best.
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