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CreamCassidy
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Seeking Advice from the HX community
Jul 10 2025 12:33PM more by CreamCassidy
Tags: Orange County, Leisure (All tags)

I’ve finally decided to move forward with creating content & becoming active on OF .
I’ve hired a Media Manager/Branding Agent & today he’s driving from San Diego to meet with me in person & go over our contract. I’ve never had interest in doing this until recently & my biggest motivation are my friends here on HX !! I will set my expectations low to avoid any disappointments as far as the outcome is concerned knowing how unpredictable any new adventure can be, if you’ve had any experience with OF whether as a subscriber or as a creator I would love to hear about it !!
      
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big1234
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Jul 10 2025 12:38PM     link to this

Why not just do it on your own?
samwee

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Jul 10 2025 12:58PM     link to this

About to say the same thing
Mr_VIP
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Jul 10 2025 01:21PM     link to this

Every successful OF bitch has a management and marketing team. You really think it’s as easy as doing it “yourself?” You think it’s actually the OF bitch DMing and texting the thirsty dudes back? 🤣. In case you haven’t figured it out…. NO ITS NOT! If you want to make the big bucks on OF or in ANY business venture, you need a management team, a marketing team, a CPA, business law attorney, etc. Treat it like a real business and incorporate it, apply for a D&B number, open business checking/savings accounts, apply for business lines of credit, business credit cards and business loans that don’t report to the consumer bureaus, build a professional looking website using AI, get a business email, business address, business phone number…

Don’t listen to these “do it yourself commandos.” They’re clearly business and financially illiterate.
moneytrain
Downey, LA, CA
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Jul 10 2025 01:22PM     link to this

definitely don't need to share your profits with someone when you can do it on your own. It does take a lot of time and consistency. You also have to find a niche that makes you stand out, and interact with your fans via pm's so they feel you care about them. I know they also use a lot of AI now to run your page. Good luck look forward to seeing how it turns out. MT
eponymouslyNamed
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Jul 10 2025 02:08PM     link to this

I would be cautious about lending your name and appearance to a 3rd-party you may not have any control over I'm sure you'll get some $$$ just stressing caution. For me personally all the experiences with those OF accounts that are obviously run by somebody besides the model have been largely negative
makinbacon
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Jul 10 2025 03:11PM     link to this

I too would be a bit cautious. You should retain legal advice before you sign anything. Because you might be signing away rights or ability to reuse content like exclusive deals where you are not allowed to post to other sites. Look at who they manage too.

It make sense though, marketing and management can help you create your brand to differentiate yourself from other girls.
Drelaxhour
Anaheim, OC, CA
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Jul 10 2025 03:16PM     link to this

Usually it’s the other way around , but best wishes , I really hope you do great
3505john
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Jul 10 2025 07:22PM     link to this

You might be getting robbed.
HungryMan4u
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Jul 10 2025 07:36PM     link to this

OF takes 20% of your income
Plus i heard that 10% of the creators make 90% of the high income profiles there
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Jul 10 2025 09:31PM     link to this

I helped a couple of ladies make content, let me know if you need B/G partner. I’m very “Tall”
LisaBailey2.0
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Jul 10 2025 11:35PM     link to this

Do they guarantee results?
If they are taking 40% or more, you could hire an assistant and do it.
What is their marketing strategy? Did you see reviews, talk to anyone they made money for?

Be careful, everyone and their brother is saying they will "manage your OF" but without a solid plan there is no success.

Are they revamping your entire online persona? I am happy to share with you how I was told to set it up. I learned from someone who is the top .48%

I don't make tons cause I don't give it the attention it deserves but I can push buttons and make subscribers come.

HMU
Rickyyy777
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Jul 11 2025 07:07AM     link to this

Maybe if you were in your 20s? You can just do it your self at your age.
big1234
LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 09:08AM     link to this

Someone who I trust told me that those managers take 80%!!! So be careful what you sign up for
Fallenangelsinoc
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Jul 11 2025 10:10AM     link to this

Investing to grow it’s always good , but growing too fast may lead into problems u can’t handle .
But growing organically , will help built a strong body of ur bussines and will prepared you for when ur bussines is bigger .
sinful_one66
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Jul 11 2025 11:56AM     link to this

Do HX members get free access? Asking for a friend.
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 12:48PM     link to this

I feel like there is so much info from other women and or content creators, on like TikTok, Reddit, forums that you could just educate yourself. Trial and error is the best way to learn, imo.

You can do this yourself.
There is no need for a manager.

if I were to get a manager, it would be a women.
Its a personal preference, thats just me.




blackmask
City of San Bernardino, Inland Empire, CA
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Jul 11 2025 12:56PM     link to this

Ngl I’ve learned so much from following 304 tok on TikTok
YourCaptain
San Diego, CA
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Jul 11 2025 01:00PM     link to this

At some point, a significant percentage of OF bitches will be AI bitches.
rfederer
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jul 11 2025 02:02PM     link to this

OF is just dumb, a waste of time for male losers. Go watch pornhub and it's free.
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 02:29PM     link to this

I think there are better sites than OF that give you a little more freedom.

and its not the same as PH.

There's much more to these sites, interaction, different interests... indont know how to say it the HX way.. but if you know, you know.

Not everyone is just into vanilla.

DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 02:30PM     link to this

and 304 tiktok is amazing.

both informative and entertaining
lookingla2013
LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 03:24PM     link to this

Only simps pay for o f content
ratherb
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Jul 11 2025 05:00PM     link to this

regardless of your choices. Take any document they want you to sign - contract, waiver etc. Upload it to ChatGPT and/or deepseek and ask it to give you a summary. Ask it to detail all fees and what your agreeing to by signing. That will help point out what items you need to focus on.
mildlyamusing1
West Hollywood, LA, CA
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Jul 11 2025 06:18PM     link to this

I’ve never used OF, but I do know business. It’s better to do it on your own initially to find your niche and to develop some business first. You have no bargaining power right now.

You should still take the meeting, but don’t sign anything. Ask them what exactly are they offering. Learn as much as you can from them. What they are offering to do for you can be used as a roadmap on what you need to do to be successful.

Once you start getting busy and generating a good amount of income, you can hire people that can do the same thing for less to help you increase your revenue and profitability. It is incredibly easy to hire someone in the Philippines, India, etc., who can work remotely and handle all of what these mangers can do for you for a fraction of the cost. I attached a couple of links to websites where people all over the world bid for the work you need to get done.

You may find the domestic managers that you’re meeting with are the best option (after doing a deep dive into what it takes to be successful on OF) and after you start experiencing some success. Make sure you hire an attorney to review the contract. You don’t want to bust your ass (literally) while everyone else makes a lot more on your efforts than you.



Attached Links
https://www.upwork.com/
https://www.fiverr.com/
GrayWar
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Jul 12 2025 06:19PM     link to this

You have gotten some excellent advice.

Look at some other OF providers & see what they do. What I've noticed is that they post on a regular basis. Weekly for some.

Provide professionally done photos/videos. That does not mean have someone else do it, but it does mean things like clear content, well lit and well framed. You may want to get a tripod for your smartphone/camera. Some amateurish content is OK, if not too badly done. That content can have some beginner charm.

Maybe begin with a free or very low-priced month.

From me:
Start small and take baby steps. See what works for you, then build on it.
Don't expect immediate high income. It takes time for you and your potential customers to get used to you.

I wish you great success.
imapple
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Jul 13 2025 09:54AM     link to this

Using OF services to improve work efficiency

In the past, I have had the opportunity to do many things by myself, but I found that doing things by myself takes a lot of time and prevents me from focusing on what I love. Therefore, I would like to recommend that you consider using OF that have expertise in various fields.

Having OF manage the tasks that want will allow us to spend more time preparing for the work that I love. However, I would like to recommend that you check the expertise of the service provider to ensure that you will receive quality services.

Currently, I have used OF services that have expertise and have been very successful. “ Your safety is our most important job” I really made the right decision!

If you are interested, please feel free to contact me. I believe that you will feel relaxed and have no more problems at work.

Finally, I wish you happiness in your work and spend time developing yourself in the areas that you love.

Thank you and Wish best Wishes
GinaGalaxy
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Jul 14 2025 01:17AM     link to this

He will take ur profit
Take ur content put it on other sites with out u know

OF requires ur SSN and takes 40%

I say run
GinaGalaxy
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Jul 14 2025 01:19AM     link to this

U will b making the content
And sending it to him/her
All u have to do is upload it
Use hashtags

Use ChatGPT
misterwa
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Jul 14 2025 09:53PM     link to this

What Gina said. I also have found the accounts that are obviously managed are just boring. I sometimes think how they try to get me engaged and how their ROI must plummet
DRPW
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Jul 15 2025 01:30PM     link to this

Have you tried creating and managing the OF and content yourself. You can then invest more on quality and consistency of content you upload and you own it all.
ultimatejohn
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Aug 18 2025 02:07PM     link to this

You don't need a manager, cpa and all that other drag on profits. Get an upgraded AI and it can do all that for 1 monthly fee. Just get set it up.

Autonomy is now possible and you no longer need ticks
TOSViolate818
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Aug 18 2025 02:19PM     link to this

ultimatejohn what is the upgraded ai? Is it inside of or is it a separate app? If separate which one(s) is good?
HungryMan4u
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Aug 18 2025 06:58PM     link to this

From what I understand, if any sexual acts with a partner are uploaded, you need a model release from the other party,but it may be rejected anyway.
CreamCassidy
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Aug 19 2025 02:08PM     link to this

I’m enjoying all of your feedback Thank you ! I decided to pause the process for now it is best to just take my time.
azzmanforever
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Aug 19 2025 05:32PM     link to this

I think Fansly is better
cort6777
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Aug 21 2025 09:22PM     link to this

I know alittle about this escorting thing.

I KNOW A GUY that worked with Eros, USFinestEscorts and TER.

Same thing he told all the girls.

1st
Act like you give a shit about the guy.

2nd
Every 60 min booking is a 75 min show..

3rd
Stay off your phone, except the only text
Is to your safty/check-in person saying it's cool.
Even if you don't have such a person, tell them you
do for your safty. They won't know if that person is in the
parking lot or Nebraska.


4th
It's a business, treat it as one..


5th
Never book back to back shows.
Guys are always late or can't find the room.
Minimum 30 mins in between clients.

These rules are from 2000 so I'm sure things
have changed but I'm also sure they are the same.
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