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I feel bad. I have messages from 6+ months ago and I am so so sorry for that
I know it leaves a terrible taste in people's mouths but I pinky promise that I'm worth the wait .
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I’m usually fine even if it takes a couple days. We all have lives. We all get busy. This site represents just a small sliver of our life for most of us, so it’s all good if it takes a little time to reply to a message.
If it takes longer than a few days, I’ve probably already forgotten I messaged you at all, so even that’s no big deal! 😂
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June *is* worth the wait!
I wouldn't be / am not offended by a slow response, especially for someone I've met and know to be trustworthy.
Sometimes you have to be patient. Sometimes it's just time to find another friend.
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I think it depends whether or not they have a current classified up or not. And “yes”, June is definitely worth the wait!
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The conversation appears to have gone sideways.
2. I concur that June is a real sweetheart and is probably worth the wait, but back to
1. What is a realistic response time? I thinkn24 hours is realistic. I find it amusing when a month later the provider finally reaches back. Does she think that we abstained for several weeks/months?
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Are they posted for an upcoming trip? If so, I'd say within the day, maybe two days. People work, have school and lead full lives.
Are they posted for a current trip? I'd say a hour or so... they could be busy or taking a break. 
If you are serious about hanging, maybe follow up.
If they are not posted for anything .... I'd say when they feel like it.
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A day & I never throw out more than 2 lines at a time.
I don't get annoyed, they're allowed to have a life beyond Hx.
For some this is a side, for others it's the main.
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I am guessing 10-15 seconds..
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I always pm members who have added the girl to their network I before decide to pm the girl.
Depending on their reply, I pm the girl and wait for her reply. If I don't get one at all I figure she got busy or just isn't interested. It's no big deal either way. Sometimes they surprise me with a pm days or weeks later. I always reply to them even if they're late.
If she does answer and is what I'm looking for I will pm her back when I see her reply.
I expect a reply to my follow up pm within a few hours is she's posted any time since I replied. But I can't control what she does, so I don't worry if she takes awhile or doesn't reply at all.
It's all good.
Especially since I have a couple of go to regulars who are usually up for some spur of the moment fun...
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