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At least not a “personal”’number, yeah.
But none the less my working number. So it taints it a little when it’s shared to people who I didn’t personally give it to.
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i’ve also had this problem since i started. i have to switch my work number a lot because of it. idk how it happens. it sucks and i’ve always felt like a safety concern 
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yea not cool
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"Forever"
May 5, 2025
So, what's your other account?
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If someone texts you but can’t confirm they are who they say they are, don’t trust them.
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Yes I been getting weird number texting me as well saying their "name" from hx and when i reply if they can send me their handle they never do so I ignore and block
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I was recently contacted by a booker who said someone had contacted him saying he was Jazz51. The booker sent a pm to me asking what my telephone number was.
Ladies, I have it on my profile, but I will NEVER just text you unless we have pmed and I have sent you my phone number so you know who to expect.
Rubysweet...keep asking for a pm to verify. Smart lady.
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^^^^
You say “everyone” has multiple numbers, like that’s just the regular thing to do. Very odd.
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Summer....I agree.
If I send you a number, I will text or call from that number.....real simple.
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I've had men share everything from my personal info, address and yes even my number
I've had 7 accounts because of unsafe people and as SOON as I ask someone not to share it, 10 minutes later someone else was sending me a pm saying hi
Come to find out I was being outed in the mens club
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Like stated above PM first like majority if the ladies posting ad. I am always suspect of a ladies ad that says call or text first and no pm...
Feels like a hustle or set up and my age I don't p!ay that game with pimps or so called management. Seen enough in Vegas and I just give them shit and laugh at them . I was in a real crew and uncle Sam paid the bill 84 to 92 .
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Meant to day ladies that day pm first..then get text or call from nowhere of a guy trying to see them..yes I would be oh hell no too!
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Okay? I’m literally not talking about multiple numbers and apps and personal numbers tho.
I said people are sharing information or asking around for numbers and info and some people give it out for who knows what reason. And you get texted from “johnsmith22” but you never received a message from “Johnsmith22” and you’re asking for a PM and then they go ghost.
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June, I’ve also had to change my number because it’s been tainted. It gets old.
And it’s not fair that people have zero boundaries or respect.
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ALWAYS pm first. If you can’t pm update your profile to say something like “can’t send mail I will send flirt”. That’s always easy. But going through loops to get a number or information and then being called out and tucking your tail is ODDDDDDD BEHAVIOR for grown ups lol
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Some dude on here is pretending to be me and getting IOUs to then. Fucked up and not cool. I send PMs with my number and always have
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IOUs??????? LOL WHO THE HELL IS PASSING OUT PUNCH CARDS? 😂😂
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He even got girls to uber him to and from claiming his wife is on his bank account. Its wild
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you are on PD your number is posted there
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I saw that. Maybe use a different phone or screen name for PD?
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AI Spam is not out of the realm of possibility now, tying your activity to your #.
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Be curious if they do provide handles, are they valid names?
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If you posted your number in ads, clubs, or other sites, it's out there.
when gents use review sites , they post there as well.
having a work number works best IMO
you can turn it off when ever
just be sure you are verifying with PM
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I have a brain. I know my PD number is posted……. HX is a different number.
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Maybe instead of making bullshit excuses lmao, yall can take accountability instead.
Like I said multiple times, IF YOU DONT PM ME DONT REACH OUT TO MY HX NUMBER CAUSE THERES NO WAY YOULL GET IT UNLESS YOU PM ME
THANKS 🤭
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There’s no way you could have got it without PMing first ***
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AGAIN, I’m not stupid I know how this all works.
I am speaking on people who do not pm nor do they have a solid network…..reaching out then going ghost when I ask how they got my number.
That is it that is all.
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Summer your info might be on US guide … guys share everything on there including pics , details about visits and numbers
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Guys, it’s not random “people” it’s people claiming to be from HX
THAATTTSSS the problem lol
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Obviously this is not gonna end .
I'm sure the ladies that have been here for a while have a better idea, then what I will suggest.
Be prepared to change your number every quarter. However, folks are getting your number.
That ain't gonna change.
You may keep the b s calls and texts to a minimum.
Apparently it's part of the business.
Peace of mind does come with a price.
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I don't think she's asking for much, respect is tricky nowadays.
An HX dude rubbed me the wrong way in a PM, so I told him NO !
HE then got very strange.
No network, then whenever he added to his network he'd PM me, I blocked him.
He would still flirt with me..yuck !
A woman who was renting my spare room one day, met him in my house and after she explained to me that he was really wanting see me and she told me his handle and it was that dude that I blocked and kept sending me flirts !!
I told her I didn't wanna see him and that he didn't have a good network, she apologized, everything was ohhhkay but SMH a few weeks later she gives the dude my phone number, it was bogus, put me in a very stressful situation.
Soooo I GET IT... don't give personal information out if they want to they will, it's none of anyone else's business !!
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Literally all I’m saying is stop sharing shit with your buddies online. If you’re not doing it, you shouldn’t be offended by my words or any of the other ladies. Lol
It is what it is. The game is just that, the game.
All these men defending or making excuses THAT bothers me and will never NOT bother me.
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SF- exactly!!!! They will literally do anything sometimes to get near you and if they don’t think THATS odd, no telling what else they’ll do.
Some may think it’s just a number getting out, when it reality you never know who you’re gonna meet and if they’re off through text you have the right to deny. That doesn’t give anyone the right to cross boundaries and start making providers uncomfortable.
Clients wouldnt want the roles reversed 🤷🏼♀️
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Exactly
If there was a female equivalent of that site, men would be in a frenzy. It is not okay to share people's personal info.
Also why tf do men like telling their business to people that they don't even know.
But I've said it before and I'll say it again. Most of them just don't like women
Can't wait until the roles are reversed
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Skurfer
Same thing with me.. had a friend tell me that she had a regular from another site who wanted to meet me. Come to find out he was someone that I was avoiding... he got close to her to get to me
He would slash my tires and sit in front of my home. Got to the point where my tire blew out on the freeway and I almost lost my life. I made a new account to get away from him and wouldn't you know. So many men put my life in danger by giving him my new info . Had that many unalived me the comments would be "awww that's so sad and blah blah blah" but they have absolutely no consideration for other people's safety
It's also sad how there are 1000s of women on this site but when you tell a man no he takes that as try harder next time instead of stop.
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I'm pretty sure what has been stated.Won't change anything.
It's best to move forward and figure out something that will slow it down.
Asking scumbags to not do it anymore? Pretty sure that won't work.
Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.I don't think so.
Whatever
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When you guys actually start holding other men accountable I think that things will change but with that comment there is the reason why it won't
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Do you suggest a firing squad
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Not allowing people to have multiple accounts is a start
But I'm just waiting on the day where a female equivalent site is available ... You know, an eye for an eye
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I think you're going to be waiting a long time for that.
What is a viable solution? That's all that's important.
I don't see people posting solutions to the problem.
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Telling women "it's just the nature of business" is unacceptable but I guess it's okay to make excuses for bad people
Instead of allowing change I guess we should just accept the lack of respect
So.....
When a man gets robbed I hope those same words are repeated
You don't have to agree I still won't change my opinion
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Not allowing people to have multiple accounts is a start
That literally is a solution
Make men verify themselves via ID like other sites
I mean I have a few of you care to listen
You don't even hobby so idk why you care lol
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When I see people making emotional decisions, I know that's the wrong direction.
And cheap shots so be it
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Emotional? I apologize if you took it that way.
you asked for a solution and I gave it ....
And it's not a cheap shot I'm just being honest because I dont see why you're so invested
When someone brings up an issue instead of saying "well it's not going to change so get over it" maybe take what they're saying into consideration
That's all
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Like I said, the history is already established.
Solutions, solutions solutions are the only thing going forward.
Why do I care? I thought you might know why I would care, but I guess not, i'm out
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Have a great day butthead
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My opinion still stands
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