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Meet some old friends. Have them delete their ratings and re rate you.
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You probably need to find a few ladies who are 'newbie' friendly, since it has been so long since you saw someone.
If one of the ladies you saw years ago is willing to vouch for you, you can have a lady you want to see pm her and get the reference.
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Or as June mentioned, have the re rate done with one of your older friends.
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it can be tough to restart when you don't have recent network adds. for several years i was out of state and only saw regulars when i visited CA. my network looked as if i hadn't been active for a long time. my level also dropped
fortunately for me, jessicataylorla and littlemissalice weren't concerned about the absence of recent ratings and were happy to see me. and each of them was kind enough to rate me as well
Busman, i'm sure you'll be able to find great ladies who won't turn you down just because you don't have recent network adds. since you probably want not just new friends but also new ratings, look for gals who are good about giving ratings. i always check not just a lady's incoming ratings but also the ratings she has issued. if someone has lots of incoming ratings but few ratings they've given to others, you may want to keep looking because they may not rate you either
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You have a solid network.... you also have a lot of hobbyist. I assume from socials..
maybe just reconnect with a few ladies?
Also, are these providers not reaching out to your network?
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I thought the higher rating meant you're an OG on this site..... shoooot- If you're over a level 1 and have no red, I'll admit, I barely check the rest of your network 🫣
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the level of a person does not mean they are safe!!!
please reach out to their network and do your homework here and off the site.
be safe.
:0)
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Hey Bus, long time no hear.
I'm in the same position, long time guy since the very original site, found a solid ATF (Sadly RIP, you probably know/remeber who), and not much action since. Had a few "no way" responses, but also a few ladies who were still willing to see me.
Hang in there and I'm sure it'll work out for you.
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I remember both these dudes!
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Same here, work took me out of the area for a while, but back now and in the same situation.
Moved to dtla and it’s been difficult finding regulars again
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We’re all very sorry your five- or six-year-old ratings don’t mean much today.
Every lady gets to choose what credentials she needs to feel comfortable in these situations.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself or feeling entitled to the same privileges you used to have maybe you should look into those who are newbie-friendly and start updating your network.
It’s not impossible. We all started at zero. New people start at zero every day. If you can’t do it there are other websites that might welcome you.
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