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Dick68
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Why do some ask for deposit to know your safe??
Feb 23 2025 04:22AM more by Dick68
Tags: Inland Empire , Random (All tags)

Some girls ask for money before you even meet them and then never come. Its happen to me. So now I have a policy to never send money to girls I have never met. What do you think about that? Lets hear your wisdom.
      
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NigelCollins68
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Feb 23 2025 06:40AM     link to this

How could they not think that you're safe? You posted a picture of your dick. I mean, that's pretty safe.

Do you know what would be a little safer? It would be even safer if you posted a picture of your dick with your drivers' license and today's newspaper. Maybe that would do the trick.

Loucfirr1 posts pictures of himself in cute outfits. However, that might not work for you because you don't have his looks.
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 07:14AM     link to this

i get why girls ask for deposits sometimes because a lot of dudes flake

however its still not recommended to send one because its an easy way to get ripped off

there are plenty of newbie friendly girls on the site, just be patient and dont give up
longwalker
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Feb 23 2025 07:15AM     link to this

So, they can rip you off without ever meeting you in person.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 08:27AM     link to this

And being in Apple Valley is not helping you.

Dude, I get the walker, helped many with those, but not in a pic. And not a face pic for an avatar.

Even rideshare drivers are passing on many requests to the High Des.
littlemissalice
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 08:30AM     link to this

don't hate on the high desert 😘
I love living up here but yeah it's not very busy
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 08:40AM     link to this

Sweetheart I don't hate the Hi Des. In fact I've thought about moving there. It to many miles for RS drivers when they live down the hill after a drop off.
DoctorPhD
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Feb 23 2025 10:33AM     link to this

I agree with littlemissalice deposits are a way to protect our time slots and money to fall back on if the guy cancels. I've personally never asked for a deposit. Some ladies do see it as easy money they deserve to keep for what ever reason they feel. Which i dont agree with. Like Alice said their are plenty of ladies that don't require deposits. Not to knock the ladies who do require deposits lots of them are not scammers. When picking a lady with a deposit policy at least ask her network if she's true to her policy. And find out from her by message what would forfeit your Deposit. So if something happens you have proof to share with the community.
DahliaLove
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 10:47AM     link to this

I ask for deposits when

-someone requests my visit, meaning I'm making the trip for them.

-a person has to cancel or has flaked/ghosted more than once.

-long distance travel to their private residence / place they are staying.

-when meeting from any other sites.




How do you know it's safe???

-do your homework on the person, you should be regardless of deposit.

-reach out to their network, if its not on this site, reach out or read up on the provider.

-take a good look at who they are, what reputation they have... do they look like they sleep regularly?

-follow your gut!!

Hope this helps!




Dick68
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 11:05AM     link to this

I try to do my due diligence when reaching out to a provider. I appreciate your inputs, they are informative.
bwana
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 11:41AM     link to this

It sounds like you were asking for outcalls. They probably are worried about flaking, time and gas.
Dick68
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 11:52AM     link to this

yeah your probably right.
DoctorPhD
Vegas, NV
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Feb 23 2025 12:29PM     link to this

Wow I did not notice hx had a section for High Desert/Victor Valley. I drive through Barstow LV to LA weekly and I wondered where I could post on hx. Found it thanks
RandyMantooth
LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 12:48PM     link to this

Dick, in your situation of needing someone to come to you, and your location, most likely ladies will want a deposit at least enough to show you're for real and enough to cover their gas.

My suggestion is to stick with ladies level 2 or higher with limited or no red marks on their network. The level doesn't necessarily mean they are safer, but does mean they have more skin in the game and wouldn't want to ruin their reputation over a $50 deposit.
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 01:11PM     link to this

Two things

Nice dick!

And thank you Nigel!
Dick68
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 01:48PM     link to this

You want who did this SkinnyWhite's did it to me.
DoctorPhD
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Feb 23 2025 02:04PM     link to this

Her?
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Pjforfun
Austin, TX
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Feb 23 2025 02:04PM     link to this

Nice walker. Just bought my mother the same one.
Dick68
City of Riverside, Inland Empire, CA
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Feb 23 2025 04:57PM     link to this

Well Daddy's here for you without the walker.
butthead_5150
WY
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Feb 23 2025 06:51PM     link to this

When I make a dinner date, I always ask for a deposit from the woman.

You never know when they're gonna have dandruff.
Ginagirlfriend
City of Los Angeles, LA, CA
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Feb 23 2025 09:41PM     link to this

I feel like because your place is far away everyone is going to ask you for a depsoit. I'm sorry you have had bad luck with it. Is there anyway you could go into town to see ladies? It would be less likely they would require a deposit for incall. I don't do deposits but to drive far for someone I haven't met before, I would definitely need one. Maybe try doing incalls for the 1st visit or two with different ladies till you find a favorite and then ask her to do an outcall to you for the next visit? Maybe once you establish yourself in the community as a good guy, it will be easier for you. 💋💕
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Feb 24 2025 12:07PM     link to this

Get a recent network.

Also, SkinnyWhite did you a favor, she looks like a dude with a wig on. Seriously she does.
cort6777
OC, CA
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Apr 5 2025 09:01PM     link to this

I'm simple, I stay with the same reg until they retire.

I'm on my 3rd one now..
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