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LisaBailey2.0
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Feb 11 2025 04:36PM more by LisaBailey2.0
Tags: LA, Townhall (All tags)

I have many requests to join clubs but no one responds?

Suggestions?

Yes, I have considered they dont want me LOL

Suggestions?
      
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Bfp18000
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Feb 11 2025 06:39PM     link to this

As Groucho Marx once said, I'd never join a club that would have me as a member.
LisaBailey2.0
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Feb 11 2025 07:23PM     link to this

Yet we are here together. In the same spot. Mr. Marx made our insecurities seem silly, as we all have them even if unreasonable.

If there are a lot of clubs where no one is really doing anything then maybe they should be like not deleted but in active status or something just so people aren’t like wondering
RobBlakeFan
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Feb 11 2025 07:27PM     link to this

If the owner of the club is not active you may not hear back. I can't imagine any club that allows ladies turning a lady down unless they have done something egregious at some point.
bird
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Feb 11 2025 07:32PM     link to this

I wouldn't worry about it, Lisa. I think there are a lot of clubs and/or club owners that are not very active, so most likely that is the issue rather than anything specific about you.
vince2001
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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Feb 11 2025 07:56PM     link to this

Private message the club owner directly.
sgv626guy
SGV, LA, CA
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Feb 11 2025 08:12PM     link to this

it took awhile for any clubs to accept me - sometimes it takes time. other times the club owner(s) are just completely gone or left completely. go ahead and try - but dont expect being accepted within a day. its nothing against you - imo hx clubs are pretty dead.
remo_williams
Irvine, OC, CA
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Feb 11 2025 09:20PM     link to this

To add to what bird said:

check the date of last blog activity, many of the clubs are pretty inactive, if no one posts, there is no reason for the owner to log in and maintain.
1ronvas
SGV, LA, CA
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Feb 11 2025 09:34PM     link to this

Start your own club !
mark1224
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Feb 12 2025 12:38AM     link to this

remo_williams

If you are not a member of a club you cannot see any of the blogs in that club thus you cannot see when the last date of the most recent blog was.

We have 5 clubs in common so I can see that we are in those clubs together. Some clubs do not make their membership list visible so we could both also belong to some other clubs but we cannot see we are in the same clubs if the membership list is private.
mark1224
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Feb 12 2025 12:42AM     link to this

LisaBailey2.0

We have 11 clubs in common that are visible to both of us. That means you are wanted in clubs. The advice above is that some clubs are not active.

The former owner of Clockwork Orgy disappeared from the site, so for years the club could not add new members since I think only club owners have that right. I believe (but could be wrong) that the moderators (if there are any) cannot allow someone to join.
butthead_5150
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Feb 12 2025 08:35AM     link to this

Club owners sometimes check the person petitioning for pm privileges.

Then the owner does nothing for people not supporting the site.

Two commenters on this blog don't support the site
Scantron
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Feb 12 2025 09:29AM     link to this

Is the site in financial trouble?

Should we start a gofundme to save Humaniplex?
RandyMantooth
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Feb 12 2025 06:33PM     link to this

Mark is correct, only the current club owner can see, accept, or reject petitions to join their club.

So either the owner is no longer active, or the owner didn't notice when you petitioned and rarely go through to accept petitions. I suggest looking to see how active they are, check if they have PM ability and if they do, send them a PM to remind them you sent request petition.
JR2e3
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Feb 12 2025 06:34PM     link to this



I order the club sandwich all the time and I'm not even a member, man.
I don't know how I get away with it!... Mitch Hedberg

Mitch Hedberg - Club Sandwich
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyFvGL3Z5F8
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ultimatejohn
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Feb 12 2025 09:10PM     link to this

You haven't asked tom join Let's Make a Deal! Invite coming!
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