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In these hard times we need to cut back. So instead of typing all those words, you could simply type no thank you, as the need arises.
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As well you all don't have to ask to lower our donations or ask for specials you can move on to the next lady
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If you can't afford it then don't do it as well then to ask for lower donations
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And I have responded in a no thank you and try to move on but more of you keep asking so don't you think it is up to both us and yourselves to be respectful
And just not even ask then I wouldn't need to post this
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OP: I would recommend you take your own advise and just move along. This rant is not a good look for you.
Also, your competitors may not share your same opinion. Your competition is working hard to make sure you can’t pay your rent and that they can pay theirs and some more. Just saying No, or sometimes including a tiny request into an existing service time comes at no loss to the provider. Finally, leaving the customer sweet makes it easier and more likely to come back, in
Have you ever heard of the saying “Just give them the pickle”? It’s the groundwork for customer service and business. Please don’t lecture us on how to play our chips at the table, especially if we’re up!
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Would you go to maestros asking for a discount and tell them that you don't have enough for the luxury of dining out?
Id imagine that they'd say that if you can't afford to eat at a restaurant then you should dine at home, especially since most of you already have "food" there anyways lol
But if you're going to charge Mercedes rates make sure you have Mercedes luxury. I wouldn't pay Ferrari rates for a Fiat
And no.. don't just give them the pickle lol we are adults and everyone should be respectful. That will just create entitled people who are justified in being cheap
Women have rates for a reason. Just be polite
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Exactly just be polite, going both ways.
Also, we’re not at Mastros, it’s more like shopping in the Bazaar in the middle east.
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to further June's point.
High end restaurants are high end for a reason, excellent service, great food, and beautifully surroundings.
People return because as expensive as they may be, they provide value to their customers that they won't get elsewhere.
They go out of business otherwise.
Lower end places generally speaking have lower quality food, not as nice surroundings etc.
A lower end place can raise prices if their service and food are exemplary people will pay a higher price if warrented.
If a higher end place is loosing business, they WILL lower their prices to bring people in.
It's a simple concept.
OP might evaluate her repeat and new business to see what steps she might need to take to increase her business so she's so busy that she's not only a) turning down new business, and thus raising her rates.
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"… Do you want to ride in my Mercedes boy?
Tell me what you're gonna do with me
'Cause if you want to ride in my Mercedes boy
There are so many things that I'm gonna do to you"
"Mercedes Boy" by Pebbles
Released: March 7, 1988
Took me back to my Senior year of high school.
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If you ask my network they would say i leave them very happy and with still some dough in their pocket for again my rates are to me Just right for me if others want something less then find someone else that may give them what they are asking for. But to ask instead of me offering is not cool in my opinion.as with that I can pay my bills have a good network that will keep seeing me because my donations are with in reason
Again everyone has a right to ask for the moon that doesn't mean they will get what they are asking for and every lady has the right to ask for what they think they are worth and if they offer specials great if not great to again to ask us instead of me or them offering is again to me offensive
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HhHaaHaha
I got one better for y’all!!
Here it goes
“Wanna Get with me With No MONEY oh No i don’t want No .. No Scrumssss !!!!! “
TLC said it best! lol
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*scrub
or how ever you spell it lol
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I forgot about that song 1999 and you spelled it right the second time scrubs
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Look Honey, you have been a regular on HX for 8 years and your super cool. You have a great network and no negatives. But your 56 and the guys you have in your photos kind of indicate your not getting choice HX meat. So, don't be surprised if guys ask for specials or discounts. And, given that, your post seems more like a cry of help than stopping guys from asking for the obvious. Not meant to me harsh, just realistic.
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To me it should not matter how long I have been on hx or my age we all know that a lot of ladies say that they are younger than they are on here i am proud to be 56 and still like what I do one here
That should not have anything to do with my donations and asking for lower or asking for specials it still should be up to us ladys to give a special or lower our donations
Again there a lot of us so plenty for you all to see with in the donations you are looking for.
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And it says you are 50 what does age against have to do with donations and my network has all ages again that should not have to do with my donations and or lower them or giving specials
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OP, Try adding a note under your donations on your menu that they are not up for negotiation so please do not ask. If someone asks for less than your willing to accept just say NO or don't respond at all if it gets you heated. It's just the nature of the game. Try not to take it personal.
Guys, OP isn't a fancy restaurant or luxury car, she is a sentient being who you are asking for intimate access to. Be respectful. If you were to guess how often we receive these requests you'd be off by a landslide. Rejection of these requests often result in insults...We're too Fat, too old, too ugly. It wears on a person. She's just frustrated, cut her a break.
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^^^^ Well said gorgeous 😘
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Thank you for saying that and I will try let it go and just be happy 😊 over all i think hx is a great place to be and have fun 👍
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Bingo remo !
yes love I know that she isnt a restaurant or a car lol but I can't say what I really want to without TOS so I mean, you get the point of the analogy right??
Restaurants = have menu and pricing based on how clean is the establishment, is the food good, how is the service
Cars dealerships= have different models, makes, shapes, brands, colors and sizes ... The newer models are always more expensive than the older models .. BUT the classic cars that are kept up and well taken care of can definitely cost the same as a newer model....
Both = are businesses
Now I wasn't comparing her to a car or restaurant I was just using the system as a comparison lol
Over all just be respectful from both ends and I apologize if I offended anyone
(RANDOM: Did you know that in some counties it's common etiquette to haggle lol)
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"There's two things we can't stand
One's a jive talk man
The other's a jive talk man with NO MONEY
Can you dig it? CLICK!"
--Vanity 6, "If a Girl Answers (Don't Hang Up)", 1982
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Can I just quote a great man once, Rodney King. "CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!" ���
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June, thanks, this came to mind... putting here just to lighten the mood, as I'm a bit of a Monty Python fan.
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special times I splurge on a nice establishment with good foods.
sometimes you walk away thinking that was an awesome experience other times you think meh.
other times I am just hungry and very happy with a burger and a beer and walking away thinking money well spent. I go there much more frequently.
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I have found that a simple response of "Sorry, but my minimum is XXX" seems to work and prevent any further inquiries from that person.
It is never a good idea to get testy with a prospective client unless the conversation turns to badgering, but even them a diplomatic response is always best. When someone gets butthurt they may turn to the review clubs and say disparaging things that will hurt in the long run.
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You folks need to read the terms of service
This whole blog is a violation
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Simple No by the OG post would have avoided all this back and forth...but of course people just need to tell their side of the story 🙄
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ugh o .. don’t violate the rules now lol
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June, you really have a good head on your shoulders.
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You don't get if you don't ask.
The worst that can happen is she says "No."
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Clearly not from the OPs perspective.
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Oh my god really you all need to drop this i have i said what I felt and have heard everyone's point of view and I respect them as I hope everybody has respected mine it is not that big of a deal again we should just let it go this back and forth now is just getting a little funny in my opinion I don't think I need to apologize but I do think that we all have the right to do and ask for the things that we want to ask for again with that doesn't mean we're going to get it but again it is up to us to accept those things but to keep asking someone after they have said no that's why I got upset so let's all move on it's not that big of a deal I have said before that I still think hx is a great place to be and have a lot of fun there is a lot of us and we all have our different needs and wants just like you guys have your needs and wants that's why there's so many of us have fun and let's stay safe and enjoy what hx is for meeting friends and enjoy some fun
With care your lovely Ladymarieaji-89
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Hey guys 🤙🤪me
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@MissKamora.
No, I don't ask Disneyland to lower their price, but it's top tier in Southern CA - it's an old park, but it's top tier - they have a reputation and can command top dollar, and they are adding brand new rides all the time, and they are NOT hurting for business:
There are parks out there that don't offer the same top tier experience, are smaller, or for one reason or another can't charge the same.
Disney daily admission price (as of Google search today)
104
Knott's: 60
Adventure city: 30
Camelot: 16
Point being is Knotts can't charge Disneyland prices.
Adventure City cant command the pricing that Knotts does.
I don't see Camelot complaining that it can't charge Disney prices.
The market will decide.
I am not wrong.
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So you are saying I am low grade wow nice and to me Disneyland is so over rated to pay that much now is not worth it new rides or not my money is better spent on something better fishing and boating and camping more fun
But again if I had already said no nicely that should have been it not keeping asking me and I was nice when I said no the first time that again should have been it
But that person kept asking me that is why I started this post in the beginning again to everyone we just need to move on and be happy here on hx
Thank you all
With care
Ladymarieaji-89
Ann
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Everyone buckle up bc it's gonna financially tough for everyone for the foreseeable future..good luck
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Name the broke faggots so we can humiliate them for failing for 50+ years of life. Please and thank you.
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Funny, how FOX News was showing how the market was tanking as Trump was speaking yesterday -600 pts. They like to jab at him every once in a while, through messaging.
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If you think this is bad, just wait till the tariffs hit the ladies from south of the border.
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@allcaps calling out the poor faggots...
Meanwhile, he's still waiting to bust a move after 2 years on the site.
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No simpleton, I don’t fuck with self-snitching. You remedial faggots aren’t very bright, but I figure it’s a feature not a bug, so do you thing, lady.
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Actually the Ole Goat was here before 2009 if I remember correctly.
Of course my memory sucks.
He's had so many handles, he can't remember them.
Once a smart ass, always a smart ass.
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I don't know about the smart part. Mofo is trying the gangsta style sheet but it's not clicking.
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“I don’t know about the smart part”
Says the unremarkable sock puppet displaying his misdemeanors. I’m amazed someone so fucking stupid can find his ass with both hands 😂
You fags are historically retarded and I actually find it amusing. 😏
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Gote is a professional shit stir for crying out loud.
I can't believe you've been on here this long and you don't know about this butthead.
If what he types bothers, you don't read it
And goat by the way fuck off
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When was the last time any of you ladies bought a car? Furniture? Had a remodel done from a contractor, been to a mechanic, had your house painted, bought anything off any auction website (CL, OfferUP, etc)? It's perfectly normal to ask for a deal and see what the lowest price is in EVERY ONE OF THESE SCENARIOS. And to the lady who brought up Mercedes. Shit, on my last Benz I saved over 10k by just asking, and he offered 10k on the first ask, and eventually saved almost 15k. So wrong example there.
As a matter of fact, the more expensive an item, usually the more willing a retailer is to negotiate because that product usually has a high margin. Think $100 Citizen watch vs 15k Rolex. Definitely never pay full retail on higher priced items.
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June.Moon you took the words right out of my mouth. Thank you!
It boils down to this… You have to pay to play! Period! If you can’t hang out with the big dogs, get off the porch!
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This whole thread went sideways. I hope its done.
But having said that, I think the best way for someone to decide whether Ann's rates are fair or not is to enjoy some intimacy with her. I
've wanted to experience that for some time, but Ann isn't always available and she's in OC whereas I am in LA. But I am sure it is worth the drive. I've often thought about diving into that nice hairy muff and hoping I get her so worked up that she squirts all over my face, So, Ann, when are you going to be available again?
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And.......
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..... lock the thread down.
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