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ChanelChanel
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Question of the Night!
Jan 13 2025 06:28PM more by ChanelChanel
Tags: San Diego , Current Events (All tags)

Handsome males of the community, what is the biggest thing you look for from a woman on here? Anything that steers you away from pming a lady?
      
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RobBlakeFan
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Jan 13 2025 06:31PM     link to this

I was going to answer but it seems you only want to hear from the handsome ones.
socaliam
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Jan 13 2025 06:44PM     link to this

I'd say if she looked like my type(s) and doesn't have a bad reputation in the clubs ... if I was handsome too.

Meeting has other factors that are slightly fluid.
longwalker
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Jan 13 2025 07:10PM     link to this

Messy background in their pics.
Looking like they just got up from a hard night.

xmn9669
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Jan 13 2025 08:26PM     link to this

First...

**I look at the pics (like anyone would). If they look really good (updated and a variety of them), then...

**I look at the reviews other folks have done/said. If that checks out, then...

**I pm a couple of guys (different from the written reviews) in her network and get their opinion, if that checks out, then finally...

***I PM her This is HX and one ALWAYS have to do their homework. Just like the women, we do our screening and checks too.

What personally steers me away from PM'ing a lady??

*If she smokes...i just cant vibe with that.
*If she has a messy background i.e. managed with a P, yea...its a no go for me.
*If she has non-updated/shit pics, then the above stuff and homework wont matter.

-X-™
travelor
SGV, LA, CA
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Jan 13 2025 09:13PM     link to this

I look for someone I would like to date.
h20cheetah
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Jan 13 2025 11:08PM     link to this

Looks, is she the the type of body that turns me on..thin to athletic

Breasts gotta have em, big ones..real or fake don’t care

Gotta show the face

Classy looking

Very few tattoos, some are ok to good, none on chest, neck, or face

Performs well in group chats research

Is realistic in price per hour

Offers partial 1/2 & 1/4 hr rate for those few days the calendar just won’t clear

Recent pics…keep ‘em fresh want to know who I getting now not 3 years from now

Stop taking 71 pictures of your behind

Personally like some xx version but not a must
TNBE
Fontana, Inland Empire, CA
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Jan 14 2025 02:55AM     link to this

What Cheetah and xmn said goes for me too.
bbhank77
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Jan 14 2025 06:23AM     link to this

Confidence, hygiene, and good health!
June.Moon
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Jan 14 2025 06:27AM     link to this

I love these answers



Dakine_grrl
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Jan 14 2025 07:19AM     link to this

lolololol too funny
dviantboy
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Jan 14 2025 12:07PM     link to this

I agree with much that is already mentioned. I also identify as at least moderately sapiosexual 🤓 so I want to see a spark of intelligence (or at least no negative indications). Good grammar helps.
Harpooner
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Jan 14 2025 01:14PM     link to this

Please don’t have photos that just show a part of you. You are more than an ass, or tits, or legs. I want to see all of you… the entire woman. Yes, of course I’m interested in all the parts that make you who you are. I’m interested in all of you, but I promise I’ll pay attention to all of your parts when we’re together.
michaelmix
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Jan 14 2025 04:39PM     link to this

I agree with much of what has already been shared and I'll add that I prefer a nice hotel room; not a cheap motel room. And please have fresh, clean, dry towels on hand if a shower is available; not a couple of wet towels being reused. UGH!!!
MrBritt
San Diego, CA
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Jan 14 2025 09:58PM     link to this

Clean and tidy room, good hygiene (shower, brush teeth and gargle between visits is a must), shower and clean towels available for gents. A genuinely pleasant, friendly demeanor. Rates that make sense.

BTW, these are areas that that the kgirls and their associates often excel at.

LASER is a common rating system:
Looks, attitude, session, expense, (would you) repeat.

Good luck. You're a pretty, sweet girl.
DarkGonzo
SFV, LA, CA
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Jan 15 2025 09:59AM     link to this

Combination of Looks, attitude and ‘vibe’.
Gotta be someone I find physically attractive with a profile that shows to a spark or outlook of seeming fun to hang with. Not that I need a ‘connection’, but I like to have some amount of chemistry with them.
Too much drama and extremely graphic photos is a bit of turnoff.
Also, that first message tells you a lot about a person.
pt_atwl
City of San Diego, San Diego, CA
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Jan 15 2025 01:40PM     link to this

I would add that good communication is key. If in the process of setting up a time and place there is "significant" time lag I will assume that you have little to no interest in setting up a date... and therefore I will lose interest as well. Simple stuff.
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