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it's good to have a saved response with your do's and don'ts to send in that scenario.
it only takes 2 seconds, and I think a lot of people reach out that way because at the end of the day we're all trying to use our time as wisely as we can :-)
most phone keyboards offer a clipboard option
or use the Canned Responses in your hx inbox
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Yes definitely @littlemissalice!
Canned responses are great for us, both provider and hobbyist can use.
but when it comes to date and time that cannot be canned since it will be different every time and that is what I am reffereing to.
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Yes nk8ed.Nina you are worth it
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I purposely try to be to the point so as to not waste anybody time.
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This comes up often and it's the dudes that send a PM like "deets", or "sup bby". Easy answer is don't respond to these morons. They will eventually get the hint.
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You are not wrong.
With that said, I will often just ask a girl the basics, knowing I will get a canned response, after all, I already know by the advert what city you are in, and other basic info generally from the profile.
If the canned response is friendly, I'll try to get a time pinned down. Sometimes, I'll save for later if my plans change (they often do), so I can see her when I travel to that city for work again, or she comes to where I am.
There are canned responses that are a bit of a turn off (or the price point is way above average), where I just move on.
Hope that helps.
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I am guessing the guys are fishing for the kind of information that you donāt or canāt put in your ads and profiles. They wonāt be ready to book until they know a bit more.
With all the grumbling about TOS I donāt think I should explain in greater detail.
See what I did there!
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^ 100% scantron ^
I don't think anyone is trying to be vague. I think it is more that a guy does not want to say something like "I see you are in town on Thursday, this week, I am free at 4pm and would love to hang out for an hour" not knowing if the both of you have similar interests. Granted this example is for first time communications... Even when that does happen most likely we will still get the canned response to validate we are happy with the scenario given to us. So, in my mind the actual commitment of day and time should be after the agreed upon, we are a good match.
JMTC
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@Scantron they might be āFishing for some kind of informationā right hun? the key word hrase that stands out to me in your sentence is āsome kindā. So the main focuses of my blog is the lack of communication in regards to which exact information is it that the hobbyist wants if for example provider has two adds up for different days or one is for ins and other is for outs their for more information other than āwhatās upā or ādetails pleaseā would be needed.
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Ya know what else would be great? A reply to a potential customer's detailed and well written inquiry. I make it a point to ask if I would be a good fit for a chosen provider, often to be met with radio silence. It works both ways, ladies.
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Dakine_grrl Is 100 percent correct, it does work both ways, work ethic is everything and it goes a long way, you will see the quality of clients or providers change immediately.
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It's just like a restaurant, you have to know what is on the menu and the prices before you order.
As far as location, if a guy is truly interested in making that encounter happen, he'll find his way to you.
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Love this blog!
It actually weeds out the folks that are so much energy.
I love a nice intro and one whoās not so desensitized.
Itās relaxing for me.
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I miss Troothsayerz. That answered all my questions!!!
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I also add a brief boilerplate description of myself: age, ethnicity, occupation and physical description (not of my genitals!). Sometimes the ladies read it, sometimes they donāt, but they can do business as they choose.
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Yes this is useful for future trips.
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Im in SD but when i pm i usually ask basics, and let the person know some of the things i like. Majority of the time it seems like autoreply that shows their stuff, but doesnt answer what I asked or if my preferences are even accommodated. Ive tried doing that since I saw this blog
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Ladies, if we have to reply to your details with a clarity question, then your canned response in not answering all possible questions. Also, if say something requires an additional roses and you donāt list the expected roses, then you need to update your canned response.
Lets cut through the BS and clap hands š.
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Or hey you free!?
Wtf!?
Never!!!
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It took me a little time to learn but I have finally figured out that the very first response for an inquiry of any kind from an HX PM is to state my "suggested (customary) donations." Because I am on the high side, 80% of the time I never hear from them again. It sure saves me a lot of time instead of discussing everything under the sun, get them interested, then have it fall apart when they see the donation expectations.
If they can't handle (or simply don't want to) the donation there is nothing else to discuss! It is just wasted time and effort beyond that point.
Outside of HX I want to do screening before discussing anything so the request for screening information is handled through the vacation response tool that just about all email apps have. That also eliminates a lot of wasted time - if they won't screen there is nothing else to discuss.
I probably lose some appointments by doing it this way but the reduced workload in messaging helps me keep my sanity and is well worth it.
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@Kissaprilska1981 š¤£
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+1 
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