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Hey! Good thing is you've recognized one root cause of your problems. Now you can better find a solution for it and/or avoid it. Good job, things will get better.
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First of all, good for you on getting away from him. Make sure he doesn’t have some kind of tracking device on your vehicle or other personal item. Get away and stay way , be strong. Don’t answer any new profiles here or level zeros. I know there are probably plenty of ways for him to get around that and if he won’t stay away, see about trying to get a restraining order. Just my thoughts.
There are very many men out there that can handle their girlfriend doing what you do for a living.
You having to carry the entire financial load is unacceptable.
Be safe
Best wishes
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You know what's sexier than a 6'0" tall dark and handsome, well built, toned man with dark hair & green eyes sporting a solid thick 8" dick?
A MAN WITH A JOB!
There is no way in hell I would ever date a man without a job! I don't care if he's working the drive-thru window at Wendy's, though not ideal but at least it's a f'ing job!
I'll be damned if I'm going to support some able bodied man when I can barely support myself. This guy must be a colossal pile... To be able to sit on his lazy f'ing a$$ and watch his girlfriend do what she does to make a living and support the both of them, without making any contribution to the relationship financially whatsoever! SMH
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Like I said b4, Work on yourself first and leave him in jail.
Are his prier convictions going to help you or him ? And Desperations on either side is such a turn off.
Think with Logic not your emotions. Throw Empathy for him in the trash.
The writings sound like your aware. Now stop Justifying. To make things OK.
ps, keep the room clean, sell those wigs and grow your hair to shoulder length.
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Life is short. Do whatever makes you happy.
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Most people have their strengths and weaknesses. It sounds like your ex only has weakness. I kind of feel sorry for the pathetic creature. I'm glad you got away and hope you stay away.
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No dates for me
I have not had a paying job in 10 years.
Damn, what shall I do?
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This guy is a parasite.
He will always put himself first, even if it puts you in danger.
Get a retraining order, let him rot in jail and/or the streets.
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Best of luck to you. I know it’s a difficult time right now but know you’re doing what’s best for yourself by making these tough and stressful moves. It may not seem like it now, but things will eventually get better and these hard times will be a distant memory.
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Blaine
It is totally F'd up. But sometimes things do not work out as planned.
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Damn. I'm "sexier than a 6'0" tall dark and handsome, well built, toned man with dark hair & green eyes sporting a solid thick 8" dick". Who knew!
So ladies; when you see this short, fuggly, pudgy dude with no hair and a squint enter your room, remember ... I'm too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for Milan New York, and Japan. And I'm too sexy for your party, Too sexy for your party.. No way I'm disco dancing ... 🎵🎵🎵
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Why are "dad bods" so appealing to single moms?
"If he eats we eat"
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I’m a 6'0" tall light and told I’m andsome, well built, toned man with not much hair & hazel eyes that are often green, sporting a solid thick 8" dick?
😀
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Forgot to mention I have a job too
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@BlaineFox
Hope to meet you one day soon
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A move to OC will do you some good.
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Wow, 3 years.
Just wow.
And now OP has crossed into her 30's, per profile.
No advert in 4 days showing availability/ city that she's in.
Best of luck, hope things work out, and yeah, be more present here, many ladies here use this to supplement their regular job....
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I second what @BlaineFox said
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Want me to come get you and bring you down here? I have a truck and trailer. Let's run into your ex, I'll shut him off, put a rattlesnake in his bed. Shit, what happened?! A snake? How long was he dead before they found him and how many days away I am. Lol. Tough getting fingerprints off a Western Diamondback, just sayin'.
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Damn, 3 years no job and you still stuck around? Where were you when I was in college? Girls didn’t give me the time of day until I started taking them to fancy restaurants and weekend getaway’s.
Anyway, stay more active to your messages, and don’t get any more tats on your pretty face and everything will start working out once we start to filling up your bag 💰
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Girl I needed your post right now thank you, seems you and I are going thru very similar situations, I have isolated myself from everybody so much that now when my heart is broken there is no one there for me …. It helped a lil to know I’m not alone…
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Sorry Butthead. I don’t think she can even imagine that people can be successful and retired at the same time.
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Stay strong and keep writing. Don't let those who try to pick apart your words and use them against you stop you from expressing yourself. Write through the uncertainty to find clarity. Write through the chaos to find peace. Write through the problems to find solutions. Just keep writing
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@iwantmore1970 You have a job… Oh please tell me more! My panties are already soaking 💦 just thinking about you working & making money!!! LOL… PM me before I lose my mind‼️
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Start offering freebies. It will liberate you.
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Best wishes to you Kaite and hopefully your fresh start in OC works out.
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I hope her 2/7 post doesn't mean that she didn't make the move.
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Back when I was hitting the 'gentlemen's' clubs, this was the most common type story you'd hear from the strippers. As Trump would say, "Sad."
Ladies, do yourself a favor and stay away from dudes that have lost their momentum. They never get it back. Don't kid yourself.
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