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NigelCollins68
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Cold approach in 2025 has never been easier.
Dec 28 2024 06:41PM more by NigelCollins68
Tags: LA, Leisure (All tags)

Today I heard from a dating coach that the end of 2024 is seeing a trend of men giving up on dating. Men, especially young men, are throwing in the towel.

The same dating coach reported that women tell him that they never get approached by men in real life. We see women on social media complaining that they dress cute to go out and that no men ever talk to them.

Other dating coaches have reported that it has never been easier to stand out as a man. Most men dress like slobs. Making even a modest effort at looking good pays off.

However, the question ends up being this: What are you going to get for your efforts? Are the women out there even worth the time and effort?



      
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ace_joejoe
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Dec 28 2024 08:21PM     link to this

During college, I watched some of those dating/harem coach dudes… total bs and bait and hook for males who have insecurities as they charge you for the course. If the trend is that men are giving up on dating, it’s because of social media making them feel insecure. Maybe now that I’m older, dating hasn’t been easier… when you have a job, expendable cash and place that’s your own, your confidence goes through the roof, but girls will try to sink their teeth into you the moment you have your own place or car. Young men have given up on dating because they don’t even have a car much less a their own place. Those that are players will create fake illusions of wealth, but share a room with their dad or friends. When men have given up on dating, the economy is in shambles. Or local economy is in shambles.

But in short, yes, confidence is key, and being tall is a big help. Dudes need to be social while making women feel safe. The moment they make woman feel weird, game over. Also learn how to dance and pick up a hobby. Young chicks now a days dig video games, and scinfi. But a current 31 year old girl and older wants you to at least have a decent car.
NickSgv
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Dec 28 2024 09:04PM     link to this

Hike. That's the tip for a date.
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Dec 29 2024 09:34AM     link to this

And they wonder why some or most women find older guys, to a point perhaps, more attractive.

These youngsters haven't figured out, you have to start with self first. Having your own place and a car is seen as security should one be looking for a relationship. And a guy looking to better himself in life is seen as attractive. School is never out for those who want and willing to learn the skill of attraction. And you don't have to spend a lot of $ buying someone's program.
Marni on yt has plenty of free videos.
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ace_joejoe
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Dec 29 2024 09:52AM     link to this

Whoops, meant to say that now that I�m older, dating has never been easier lol. These girls are thirstyyyyyyy lol.
ace_joejoe
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Dec 29 2024 09:56AM     link to this

@nick thats a good date. Will tell you a lot of the girl. And with a little bit of effort, your date will go a long way. Its always interesting to see a girl who doesnt hike or hates the outdoors. If you can help her chi anger her mind, your foot is in the door.
NigelCollins68
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Dec 29 2024 04:00PM     link to this

You guys are making this way too complicated. I'm here to get with an HX chick. Why do I need money if she has money? Why do I need a car if she has a car? Why do I need a house if she has a house?

When you've got a golden johnson like mine, you don't have to settle. How do I know that my johnson is so great? I know that because that's what the women of HX told me.
Juandemarco
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Dec 29 2024 05:56PM     link to this

Dating Is expensive and a waste of time...guys need to get find the shortest distance between point Aand point B...
triplet
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Dec 29 2024 10:07PM     link to this

Lately I've found that having two items in your mindset helps ease the pressure and makes you more relaxed: (1) I'm all talk and no action and (2) I haven't got a chance. This mindset predisposes me to the fact that I've got nothing to lose. In fact, I really don't have anything to lose, because I have no agenda. I'll approach the hottest, most desirable seemingly unattached woman in the gathering and tell her with as straight a face as I can muster that I applaud her self-control, that she hasn't come up to me and jumped by bones because I'm so awesome is a mark of true class and character, but that I'm here now and she can relax because the ice is broken. When she laughs in my face, I laugh too. If she's interested, she'll continue to engage. If the vibe is that she's not interested, I make some innocuous comment to escape with dignity and walk away. Sometimes it works and I make a friend, other times I go home peaceful in having made someone laugh.
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