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A big lesson about providers. So you’re openly admitting that. Yes he promised you. Did not fall through with promise. So just take it any way. Come on. You can’t even admit you stole. Can’t say how wrong you were for being in a clients house and stealing something that was not yours. If you didn’t like that he promised things and takes it backs. Hey. Don’t see him. Why can’t people when they re so wrong. Just say. I was 100 percent wrong. I stole the dog. I hope the community can forgive and I can earn their trust again. See easy.
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A couple of things come to mind:
1) What you did was unacceptable on ANY level. This was not a situation of taking an inanimate object that he promised you, it was kidnapping a family member.
2) People who do not have offspring living at home but have pets is a very special situation. These pets are effectively substitute offspring and are treated, cherished, and protected as such.
3) As a supposed professional in the the industry, you should recognize when you are being "worked." It does not excuse his actions, if he was doing what you have stated then he is in the wrong as well. But you are the one that has to apply filters as to what is real vs. what is a bullshit promise. This will not be the last time someone will promise a to "pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today" - hope you handle the next one with more finesse and class.
4) Getting involved with a client on a personal level outside of the professional one is almost always a recipe for disaster. It should be avoided at all costs! Contact, negotiate, schedule, session. It shouldn't be any more difficult than that. If they were happy with the session then they will ask to repeat.
Not sure how you go forward after this but would advise you to generate profiles on other sites if you have not already done so. Your HX business is going to severely impacted with what has gone down with this incident.
Simply put, he MAY be in the wrong also, but you were DEFINELTY in the wrong.
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I imagine texts were exchanged? Maybe screenshots should be posted. No matter what the texts say you shouldn't have taken the dog and vanished.
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First time reading about this drama, but wait a minute… Providers are falling for promises of dogs and ipads? I don’t get it.
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Well said Marrisa
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So let me get this straight. Dude says you can have my dog. She takes the dog. He IMMEDIATELY gets onto the site and says she stole my dog. She is made aware of the controversy soon thereafter. She goes radio silent until this response two days later.
If that was the case, that is he gave her the dog, she would have immediately came into the board claiming it was a gift. The fact that she didn’t makes me call bullshit on her bullshit story.
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OP:
Within every interaction between humans, there lies a little bit of humanity. I wouldn’t offer my dogs to anyone ever, as I’m not their owner, I’m their caretaker and companion for their very short lifespan. Seems like miscommunication and a lack of rigid boundaries between the two of you. If an IPad and a puppy was promised in exchange for your time…perhaps we can understand your angst. However if you were compensated for your time appropriately and the IPad and puppy were outside of your arrangement. Well you were wrong. I’m certain that your offspring loved that puppy when you brought it home finally after promising a puppy for a while. This likely made your decision to return it incredibly difficult. People love their canine companions….Reference all of the John Wick movies and DMX’s catalog. Lastly, people who have limited means will rely on false promises hoping that the promises will materialize. That’s why scammers are so effective, and overall a key factor in manipulation. Both parties are likely equally wrong in this situation. However both parties are completely justified in how they feel about the situation. Remember Humaniplex is a place for friends.
I’m done ✔️ but what do I know anyways
Channeling FUBAR
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Ok.. assuming what you're saying is true, if he proved insincere about gifting you items previously, why in the blue hell would you think he would change his ways and agree to see him again with the same arrangement??? And with all things, his damn puppy?! You really think the guy ( that you said) welched on giving you an ipad, suddenly is willing to part with his cherished pup?! That makes zero sense!
Again assuming your telling the truth ( 🙄), all you've done is proven that you make terrible choices
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We cannot judge either one none of us was there he could be promising something under influence we don’t know, and later on he changed his mind so before we judge either one and start putting a red mark on her, don’t jump to the conclusion this is a he said she said as I said that could be promised to her and he was under influence of the drug or alcohol, and she take the Puppy I only can tell my experience with ana she always was fair and nice and sweet but again I don’t know what happened. Really none of us was there.
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Dear AnasNotAReliableNarrator,
You assert that Sirclutz has promised to give things to other women here & also reneged on them. Maybe so. Yet he's been here for 4 years & has only one red ding in safety. ONE. A few hours ago, I pointed out you had 27 in under 9 months. Well, you picked up five more today for a grand total of 32. Maybe we should hear from those 32. I'll bet you yourself made promises to many of them that you didn't keep.
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You say " I learned a lesson about clients".
Well, many have learned a lesson about you being a thief.
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Women out here stealing dogs and cats now? I know inflation is high and the economy and everything but this is crazy
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Your actions don’t match your story. You’re a thief.
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Wow
Typical BS response
Just excuses
Not an apology at all
No personal accountability whatsoever
And you still made it this far
Gascon still calling shots in LA allows this kind of behavior to continue
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If it were me, the only "drama" you would be addressing is the po po at your door after you stole my dogs. Period.
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What an asinine statement OP!
You took the dog period. You are a shitty person.
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Did you leave abruptly because he said no you can't have my puppy?
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Lies!
Liar!
Fukin skank
You cant make shit up then act like this apology means shit
Ur scum end of story!
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"Contact, negotiate, schedule, session. It shouldn't be any more difficult than that."
Amen.
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Good morning!
Thank you for the PM Anna. I do understand that there are two sides to the story and I would consider removing my networking of you.
I would like to think I am a level headed person, a fair person.. a person who appreciates honesty, even if it's not pretty.
So, I ve never met either one of you but, Sircultz and I have talked through PM and text. The conversation between us is easy and flowing.. and like I said we have never met.
So I would imagine that the two of you would have similar, if not better conversation than he and I.
So surely you must have PMs or texts saying he was going to gift you something or even and argument about him not following through.. there must be mention of any gifts to be exchanged.
I assume since it was not brought up by either of you that the everything else to be expected during the visit was what it was supposed to be?
It was just that he didn't give you the pup as promised?
Personally, I would never just take something because I'm mad or feel I am owed it. Especially something with such sentimental and emotional value.
Also.. as a person with other people.... only promises I can count on are the ones I've made to those other people.
anyway... ima be off her for a few days.
Hope it all works out.
 DL
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here*
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"I learned a big lesson about clients"
Yea....and many of us (clients AND providers) learned a very big lesson about YOU!
-X-™
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She's addressing her bullshit
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And picking and choosing lmmfao
Fake bitches suck!
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How does one acquire that many negative ratings in such a short time? 😭😭😭 lol
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Steal someone's pet
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"The fastest animal on earth is a woman running away from accountability." -Sir David Attenborough
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Ana you have to understand that clients sometimes can get ahead of themselves and will promise the sun the moon and stars , but until said promise , gift , monetary gifts whatever etc is actually in your possession by them it’s just talk and should be taken as such , you don’t go out of your way to help yourself to taking and having sticky fingers , I’m a dog mom myself and would have a heart attack if someone stole my dog , regardless of the situation you must always move with integrity in life especially when it comes to your business, you don’t take take , steal , rob from anyone ever no matter how much you want it , or no matter what was promised.. always move with integrity girl
you were wrong , I can’t say sirclutz was wrong because like I said many clients over promise and under deliver & it is what it is ..(if in this case that was the situation), appreciate the booking and your donation and be on your way until “extras” are placed in your hand take it with a grain of salt
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No bullshit sorry but dont stuck up for that trash!
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Has anyone thought to interview the dog?
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Pretty sure he got better snacks with Ana.
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How is she still a Level 3 with 31 Negative Safety Ratings, 41 Negative Other Ratings and 31 Negative Karma Ratings?
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HX hates dogs.
Just kidding HX! 
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I did an interview with the dog using Skype. The dog said it would only talk in exchange for a Milkbone, a pack of Marlboro Lights and 400 HX points.
All the dog remembers is whomever took it had a bad coochie smell.
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Even if someone promised you something and changed their mind, that does not mean you steal it
And if someone made a promise and didn't keep it, I would never allow there to be a second chance. Men will say whatever that they can to get what they want. After he never gave the iPad to your for your daughter I would have blocked him and moved on . Sometimes people don't deserve multiple chances to let you down.
And most of the time if someone knows that you'll keep coming back, they will keep manipulating you (which is why he makes the promises and then says never mind. If he knew that you weren't going to see him again and had set certain boundaries it would have made it harder to play games" especially if there was proof that he said he was giving you the dog.
You should always make sure that you get whatever it is writing. Even if you had a simple text like "hey are you still able to give me the dog" and he replied yes, that would have easily shut his accusations down. If I promise someone a deal I will always say it through texts, so even if a few months down the line they ask about the deal I can't say that I didn't say that .
Regardless of the story it was not ok to steal someone's dog. You literally excused yourself and SNUCK out which means that you know you were wrong.
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Unlive 2 birds with one stone, very subtle "pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today" or am I reading too much between the lines 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this shit gets juicer popcorn anyone?
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Rachel Bloom's Song, "I Steal Pets From the Popular People". With Russian Subtitles
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who just runs off with a dog ? smh
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June.Moon Maybe we don’t always interact or agree on something but you are totally right.
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@Lusin_Jan7
That was the saying of the cartoon character "Wimpy"
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oh boy this is a doozy ��� i never ever cross major lines - the most ive done with a provider is buy her lunch/dinner or maybe some small gifts or tiny loan (like $50 max). never anything big. but the line is always drawn at a respectable boundary between friends. but between the false promises, an ipad, a dog - imma just be on the sidelines and withhold judgement. (but more like skip this altogether xD , this is too much for a small time hobbyist like me �)
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Are you Haitian by any chance?
😳😱
Jk 
But seriously…just wow. How do people act like that on both sides from what it seems….
*grabs popcorn*
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Ok….. I was not going to say anything or even get involved but this has really gone WAY too far. LET ME JUST SAY THIS FIRST & FOREMOST..I DO NOT AGREE NOR DO I CONDONE THE ACTIONS OF OP! I’m not saying she was right nor what she did was okay.!! I personally know Ana she is my best friend and I have never seen or witnessed her do anything malicious or do anything scandalous. & I know that the majority of the people on her network can agree with me. It’s crazy how fast yall can turn on someone! Especially someone that was very much liked and doing very well on here.. anyways getting off track! I was totally in agreement with the community about her actions and how wrong she was (best friend or not) Then I started seeing the threats of violence against her. & the cyber bullying towards her & her character and some even went as low to even speak on her appearance.( which had nothing to do with the matter) She is very young and is unfortunately going to do stupid shit still but hopefully would be able to learn from her mistakes. Instead of all these grown ass people bash and threaten, and attack someone who’s still learning and fucking up you all might be a little empathetic and help Ana learn from this dumb ass shit she did! How about not taking sides if you do not 100% the ENTIRE situation! Which 99% of you do not! I have seen in Person myself SirClutz make multiple promises to Ana and Her daughter! All of you are taking about being a dog mom/dad.which I understand but no one is talking about How she is the mother to a tiny human being. That is her actual child that she gave birth to and Now has been promised all these things to them! One might take that a little personal! ONCE AGAIN IM NOT SAYING SHE WAS RIGHT. IM JUST SAYING TO BE EMPATHETIC TO BOTH PARTIES! Saying she’s Trash and scum and so on and so forth in fucked up especially when you don’t know the person! I did text Ana and tell her that she was wrong and to give the dog back! & I was able to do so without being a bully. I’m just confused as to why a bunch of grown ass sophisticated and classy bunch of individuals went to stoop just as low as her actions! She told me she knew she was wrong but didn’t want to come on here and address the situation due to the the aggressive bullying! All I am saying is this whole situation could have been handled in a better way. From SirClutz empty and disappointing promises. To Anas decision to take it into her own hands (literally) and take the puppy! To the community and the way sides were taken followed by unnecessary hateful hurtful things said to OP.
This is not like her at all, She is going through a lot (which don’t make her actions okay) but everybody handles things differently. Ease up on the girl! Telling her she was wrong is okay holding her accountable is understandable but bullying harrasing and attacking her is not!! Those are just my two pennies!
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I think she was in a rough spot after abducting the dog, her family got attached making her decision to return puppy delayed she returned it I think she will be ok.
Being a single mom is hard men aren't the men of yesteryear.
I've had 7 dogs in my lifetime and I would never compare any of my adult offspring to an animal. I have 2 BIG dogs now both older than 5 years one problem with our society today is smart motivated adults aren't having kids they get a small animal dog, cat etc... then call them selves parents including my daughter having stickers saying dog mom SMH. My 3 sons have their shit together 2 work for the government 1 gets his BA this fall none of these dudes want children 2 of them are practically married. My daughter just turned 21 no job barely graduated high school just moved back home and wants to have kids with her loser boyfriend FML.
One other problem with society is obvious the wrong muthafuckers are having Kids see above statement!!!
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I can’t comment on who should and shouldn’t be having kids love. & Yes of course she was in a rough spot after that, who wouldn’t be lol . Stealing is not something I do I don’t think it’s okay by any means. Not a dog, Not a dollar NOTHING! Especially when you were invited to such persons house. All I was saying is that sides should not be taken and the bullying is unnecessary, hateful and mean! Especially coming from persons who don’t know anything about the situation except for one party has said! My mom always told me there is always 3 sides to every story! His side , Her side & then The Truth! I couldn’t just sit here and read all these nasty hurtful and unsafe things were being said amongst a group of adults who pride ourselves on being safe! There is a way to go about things and I think all three parties went about them the wrong way!
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