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000adventurer
Fontana, Inland Empire, CA
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Nature of the beast ... or is it me?
Oct 7 2024 11:07PM more by 000adventurer
Tags: Inland Empire , Random (All tags)

Starting out in anything is tough - learning a new skill, language or getting back to dating after a long relationship. You'd think it wouldn't be too hard to set up a date on this site; I've found nothing but the opposite to be true. Yeah, I'll get some replies to messages here and there. Sure we made tentative arrangements. Then ... crickets. I even paid some money up front since I don't have a network. Then Casper shows up - ghosted again.

It's like getting your first job. How do you get any experience if no one will take a chance and hire you? Maybe I'm expecting too much to get a reply within a few hours? I'm polite and patient, but I'm doing something wrong. I'd like to open this up to anyone who's had a similar experience and has overcome it or if you threw in the towel. Anyway, thanks for reading my rant. *gets towel ready* Cheers.
      
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ColossusJones
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Oct 7 2024 11:53PM     link to this


Try to join a club or two.

NigelCollins68
Whittier, LA, CA
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Oct 8 2024 12:52AM     link to this

You took down the photo of your face.

Why not try posting a photo of your weiner?

People have been posting photos of old bananas. The bar isn't too high right now. You could win first prize.
AFMadness
Inland Empire, CA
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Oct 8 2024 09:07AM     link to this

No wiener pics, girls love good mystery.

In a word, Marni, look her up and understand where the attraction lays.

And yes first is hard for many things. It gets easier after the third time
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ababysosweet
OC, CA
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since Feb 6 2023

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Oct 8 2024 05:21PM     link to this

Hey hun try suggesting to video chat for extra verification, in your messages not the video call don’t mention any kind of monetary exchange! Not saying that will forsure work but that might make a provider feel just a little more at ease! Hope that helps! 💋
Sly69
SGV, LA, CA
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since Feb 28 2011

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Oct 8 2024 05:41PM     link to this

I broke into hobbying over a decade ago under a sightly different handle (long story). I met Sexy Suzette (how I miss her) on another site. She verified me in a variety of ways. Sexy Suzette was a level 5 and was comfortable with me and from that point on she became my verification buddy until my own network built up, eventually getting to level 5. So I recommend reaching out to a higher level lady and providing whatever verification info she needs and once you break pass that threshold it will get easier.
Tatiana36dd
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Oct 9 2024 06:53AM     link to this

How is Fontana
TomD92801
OC, CA
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Oct 9 2024 09:45AM     link to this

You added someone to your network. You should contact her and ask her to add you to hers. That's a start.

We'd also be interested in who took a deposit from you and didn't show. That is called theft and is frowned upon by everyone on HX.
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