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1inamilliLA
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When is it a problem?
Dec 2 2023 09:32PM more by 1inamilliLA
Tags: Las Vegas, Random (All tags)

Gambling, I mean. So, lets say you are single, live in Las Vegas/are able to pay your rent/bills on time every month, have no kids/dependents- when or what would make you consider it being a problem really? If so, how the F*CK, besides getting older and wiser maybe, were you able to find the motivation on your own to simmer down lol or did it take someone else or a crisis to stop you if so? Whats your sincere reflection on the matter? Asking for a friend lolol
      
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snowball
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Dec 2 2023 09:42PM     link to this

It's only a problem if it crimps, eliminates or dissipates other priorities, especially subconscious priorities that one may not consciously think much about. (Just answering for a friend with experience....)

In any case, there are ways to evaluate priorities and explore thought exercises that might help some individuals.... have your friend hit me up offline if interested and will get him/her further "food for thought."

It's a very interesting topic on several levels.
SeymourButz
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Dec 2 2023 09:48PM     link to this

WHAT NO KIDS?


I can fix that.....lets do it. Besides, I need a sugar mama.
1inamilliLA
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Dec 2 2023 09:56PM     link to this

Thank you and lol buttz- c’mon now. Friend needs real friends/real talk from those whom have been through it or relate. But no kids, never happened, old school believing in marriage if having a baby I suppose so shush😘🙄
SeymourButz
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Dec 2 2023 10:03PM     link to this

I'm olskool too .......
Iffen yur askn. I accept. I'm not going to let you get away. 220, 221 let's do it. But I call dibs on the remote control.
1inamilliLA
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Dec 2 2023 10:12PM     link to this

Whoever pays the bills and takes care of all that is who definitely controls the remote id say… but that’s a dick move either way- u gotta both be interested in similar shit or don’t bother getting married or be ready to submit to your woman- she’s THEE woman yet YOU need to be the man in many ways… too old school? Possibly. Says my friend…
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Dec 2 2023 10:25PM     link to this

Hello
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1inamilliLA
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Dec 2 2023 10:35PM     link to this

🤔 that’s… helpful 😉
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Dec 2 2023 11:25PM     link to this

My 3rd oldest plays poker. He studies the game and reads and understands the odds. He practices online also to get better. He makes a lot more than he loses. His job pays him a lot more, but if he was losing money then he probably would not play. He has done well in tournaments, including the World Series of Poker in Vegas plus some of the smaller ones before the main tournament.

So he is gambling, but because he knows the odds he wins a lot more than he loses. Even when he wins he thinks about that hand and how he could have played it differently. Is that gambling?
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Dec 2 2023 11:35PM     link to this

Remove temptation. Which may require moving from Vegas and not living anywhere near a Casio.

Most have to hit rock bottom before they finally make the decision to stop the behavior on any addiction.

Good Luck.
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Dec 3 2023 12:57AM     link to this

hi,
i agree with the living far from casinos. the temptation would be too great if you had access to it every day.

every game is in favor of the casino.. yes you may have a lucky night, but most times its like what did i go.

i like to play craps.. stick with a strategy, but no matter how good a strategy is.. its still all luck in the end..

Good luck haha
Jack
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Dec 3 2023 01:16AM     link to this

If gambling trumps other priorities in your life, and you lose then you have a problem.
butthead_5150
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Dec 3 2023 04:32AM     link to this

When it interferes with your goals.
Then it is a problem.
Atticus_Finch
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Dec 3 2023 05:55AM     link to this

If your 'friend' is asking 'when is it a problem' the answer is NOW.

There are no set rules for when something goes from a hobby to addiction.

But friends of mine that are 'friends of Bill W', say that they quit - not when they hit rock bottom but when they believed they were going down that road. They believed that if they didn't quit it would lead them to ruin, so they sought help.

Atticus Finch
June.Moon
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Dec 3 2023 06:43AM     link to this

90 percent of gamblers relapse

I did a paper about this last week in class. It's a terrible hobby .



Invest instead
June.Moon
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Dec 3 2023 06:43AM     link to this

Gamblers with addiction **
SeymourButz
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Dec 3 2023 07:42AM     link to this

Every morning when I wake up, it's a gamble.
MagicMark
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Dec 3 2023 08:12AM     link to this

You can be addicted to poker, love and know the game, and spend way more on it than is probably comfortable, and yet, not do any other gambling. I call it poker addiction, .... and I've seen it plenty of times. I can be of varying degrees too, but it's still an addiction. Balancing your budget to accom9datevyour losses in gambling us a problem.
hercule
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Dec 3 2023 08:27AM     link to this

If you are losing money, it's a problem.
jimmmyz
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Dec 3 2023 08:43AM     link to this

Gambling is always a problem. It takes the donations away from fun things like hx.
jybeho
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Dec 3 2023 08:54AM     link to this

TBH it's a problem as soon as you think it might be and recognizing that something is off. That will be different for everyone, but generally personal relationships are the most affected and that includes being honest and looking at the situation with a perspective of internal reflection that will bring possibly painful or hidden items to the front.
But rationalization and minimizing the effects will take over. Then it's a real problem.
SeymourButz
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Dec 3 2023 10:53AM     link to this

Milli straight put me in my place. She's a tough one alright.
I better start looking for a job.
GinaGalaxy
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Dec 4 2023 02:00PM     link to this

Play what u can lose
And
Keep what you can win

Set a time limit!

Buy coin base stock lol

Or


do fun sport bets
U can entertain yourself
Get drink vouchers
Hang out in the sports book
Bet like a parlay or whatever
Meet n greet ppl so it's more social as well.



I'm a professional gambler on paper.
So I know bout wins n loses.
notsofast
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Dec 4 2023 02:47PM     link to this

Don't listen to these pussies, Let It Fuckin Ride!

The rush of hitting a morning three teamer on an NFL Sunday is impossible to replicate. A sports book has more energy flowing through it during March Madness than you can comprehend. A hot Craps table, a Royal, a 36-1 stack on roulette, so many options to pump the endorphins and feel alive.
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Dec 4 2023 02:57PM     link to this

Yeah bet it all on the hard 8 one roll
1inamilliLA
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Dec 4 2023 07:36PM     link to this

Thanx for the mainly words if wisdom everyone 💯❤️.. I’ll be sure to pass it on
Gina- they lure ya in with not just free drinks but plenty of comped nights- they’re fkn genius lol
Yeah and plus I’d say… it’s harder than you think not to wna go all in sometimes so maybe leaving your atm/credit cards home and/or not being by yourself is quote helpful…than again, who follows the rules anyways reallyyy lol😘🍀
1inamilliLA
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Dec 4 2023 07:48PM     link to this

Btw… HX isn’t happenin much in Vegas, really… and wondering, is there still meet & greet events and if so? Make one happen in Vegas soon, will ya? Haha🥳
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Dec 4 2023 08:44PM     link to this

Save your money and play the slot machines.

Trying to win money at a casino is a complete waste.


Have you come out rich playing the cards in Vegas Or anywhere else?
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Dec 4 2023 08:52PM     link to this

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MY 2 cents
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