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I’ve noticed it a lot as well lol
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That sucks.
I know life does happen, but I would never no show on a lady.
I always communicate and if something did come up, I would typically then do an immediate reschedule with the lady.
If I had to cancel right before my appointment, I would definitely make it up to the lady, giving her a very big tip for losing business due to my cancellation.
We all need to treat each other and our time more respectfully.
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Anybody who flakes on you must be blind or an idiot. You are hot AF!
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there are plenty of guys who get off on that game
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@marissa These were HX men.
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They were however both level 0 one having 5 pos safety ratings and other 15
And gentlemn .. thank you for the lovely compliments and feedback as well
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Various reasons.. one example can depend on what guys who have visited you and what they have shared with others that pm about you before deciding to visit u. That can be good or bad . The ladies that provide outstanding service on hx rarely have this issue..
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Yes, but did they send you a PM? If not there are people that say they are so and so, but they are not. That is why a bunch of us list that if you did not get a PM first from us they are not us.
You can read PMs without having points. You only need points to send a PM. If I send a lady a PM and she does not have mail privileges, I will give her 7 days of mail (they may not see my PM immediately). You can also send them FX points for one day.
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@sweetcheeksXOXO well it is a little comforting to know it's not just me lol
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lmao at how some people think none of the men from this site dont flake or waste girls time...
most of the men on this board waste girls time... or they pm asking for ur info more times then u can count and dont bother booking u which is a total waste of time...
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Good point pleaser .. it goes both ways.
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Us guys we suck shit at times 
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@mark1224 they PM'd and I verify everyone twice with text and I don't send an address until an hour before appointment time .. etc
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In my younger days, there were times when I would set an appointment with a provider, and then get so aroused thinking about it that I would manualy release myself, and then cancel.
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Becoming more common. I wish clients respected our time like any other businesses.
This is why I require a deposit from low levels and non members
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I love ... "manually release myself". Like DIY boiler maintenance rather than calling for a plumber.
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"I don't send an address until an hour before appointment time"
I know I mailed you without scheduling. It will happen one of these days. I realized how far Sherman Oaks is and it would honestly take me more than an hour to drive there. Which is not a problem when I commit to an appointment.
I can't speak for the people who flaked on you, but I can say that in the past I have set up appointments with women and then asked them to give an address or cross street and got no response, and I just ended up not going. Because how can I be sure they'd respond to me when I get there when they won't respond to me now? This is especially true when some providers list "Los Angeles" or "Long Beach" and then pretend that isn't hundreds of square miles. I need to plan a route on Google Maps and figure out when to head out so I'm not late, which can't happen if someone doesn't give me at least a ballpark address. Hope that isn't happening here.
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^^ Leave Long Beach outta this 🤨🙃
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They beg for you to come then no show.
Just gotta stay positive.
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I think it's a power trip for some. Others get bored and rub one out in the meantime.
I've had women flake on me and it sucks to burn a window of opportunity. Those windows are few and far between.
On the other hand, my schedule is pretty damn challenging. So I don't book so I don't have to cancel. And end up sitting home by myself.
Trying to find a balance.
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I have started several blogs about no show, no call vs. the lady going radio silent when contacted at the appointment time. This is a problem for both sides without a clear solution. Deposits really don’t work, and painting someone red for safety is, in my opinion, an overreach.
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I hear what you're saying and go out of my way to communicate with a provider. And if I can't make it, I cancel out of respect for their time.
On the other side of the coin, when we schedule a visit, I would expect the provider to respect my time. Waiting well beyond our agreed upon time is not cool. It swings both ways.
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It cuts both ways and sometimes stuff happens.
For example, a while back I set an appointment with a well reviewed service provider who posted earlier in this thread. Set an appointment the day before, communicated back and forth and confirmed via text the morning of the appointment, and I headed over.
When I got there, nothing. It was full silence. I texted several times with no response, and then messaged through HX. Waited over 30 minutes. No response. So I left.
Later in the day I followed up again to ask what happened, said I hoped everything was ok, and that hopefully we could connect again soon. Again, silence.
So like I said, it cuts both ways. In my professional business, people regularly make appointments and then no-call/no-show. It sucks when it involves getting dressed up, travel, and other preparation before the client(s) arrive...only to find out they just don't show up.
All parties should be considerate of all sides.
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Wow y'all, I wasn't expecting so much feedback. Thank you all ... I appreciate everyone's advice and opinions.
I understand cancelations, for any reason or no reason at all, life happens... I would however expect a quick text letting me know, more time in advance the better, but even if it's just before the appointment time, is still helpful.
Hope everyone has a Beautiful Day!!
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When I get a NCNS from a woman, I look at like I was spared a bad time. If someone has so little integrity as to ghost me, that it would have been worse to actually see them. Put them on the do not see list and move on.
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If I'm interested in possibly meeting a lady I haven't seen before, I always ask for details regarding appointments (translation: menu, donation). That doesn't mean I'm going to book time yet. If the details don't work for me, I always PM back so the lady knows not to expect further communication from me.
If the details DO work for me, I'll PM the lady to schedule an appointment time, then take it from there.
If something comes up and I can't make it, I'll either text or PM as far in advance as possible.
Ghosting from either party means that either party is not ready or willing to transact for whatever reason.
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<--- has never flaked.
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There are shitty guys on this site. There are shitty ladies on this site. Hard to avoid either, unfortunately, and both can rightfully complain.
Sorry that happened, but chalk it up to the game, and know that most are not in that shitty group.
You definitely are a vibe, so you will have a great run.....
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I agree with bwana.
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I solved the problem by only having outcall to me. . If she doesn’t show I just retire early for the evening. The pool for ladies who do outcall has shrunk over the years though.
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That's the main reason why I do outcalls only, and book incall for clients I know well already and don't flake. Because I could only imagine planning a incall, booking clients and everyone no show or reschedules. I'd feel somewhat disappointed, my opinion I think it comes with the business, So plan wisely ladies in case no one does show up.
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