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Dascha
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Retaliation rating after exposing my stalker
Sep 16 2022 06:34AM more by Dascha
Tags: San Diego , Random (All tags)

I recently noticed someone rated me red immediately after I shared my stalker story, these ratings have an envelope but I can't see the username/handle of who rated me, it only says it's Male Level 4.

I have not met up with anyone new since the incident and I'm curious to know who it was and why they rated me if we've never met.

This is an intimidation tactic to ensure next time something happens to remain silent about it... Which will not happen.

It honestly brings me down because I only have good ratings from my actual meetings.

Any ideas or tips?
      
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bwana
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Sep 16 2022 06:54AM     link to this

No one really cares about the anonymous ratings, except for the chickenshit that made them. It won't effect your biz. Just accept them as a badge of courage.
YourGirlJane
Sacramento, Bay Area, CA
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Sep 16 2022 07:27AM     link to this

Don't let it get you down.
Addie
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Sep 16 2022 08:49AM     link to this

yeah don't worry about it.
artnjazz
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Sep 16 2022 09:27AM     link to this

The negative rating is dated back to August 2, 2022. Have you had it since then?
TheMatrixx
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Sep 16 2022 09:41AM     link to this

It's the cost of blogging you can expect more of it
seek899
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Sep 16 2022 09:43AM     link to this

Dascha. I know it's annoying because you have a good, network but as others have said, the best thing to do is forget about it. The envelope icon means his contact with you was "Online/By email" so you could check your PMs for recent exchanges with a Level 4 who seemed upset but unfortunately this stuff happens a lot and really won't affect anyone who wants to see you.

On the plus side, you've almost leveled up. Your safety level is already a 1. Only the overall level is displayed on a person's profile page but if you hover your cursor over the level of that member, you can see a pop-up with all the categories that make up the overall level.
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Dascha
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Sep 16 2022 02:11PM     link to this

Thank you all, much love to all šŸ’
vince2001
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Dec 29 2024 11:24AM     link to this

Come back in general
Dr.Fate
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Dec 29 2024 11:59AM     link to this

It's creepers who bump 2 year old blogs who keep girls away
Dascha
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Dec 29 2024 05:04PM     link to this

Happy Holidays ✨

Subscribe to get updates, I plan to visit OC very very soon.

Happy 2025 to everyone šŸŽ‡
3505john
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Dec 29 2024 07:06PM     link to this

We can see fake
Visshvroom
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Mar 14 2025 01:20PM     link to this

Welcome back to OC. Sent you a mail. Please check.
scotty949
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Mar 14 2025 10:57PM     link to this

Brush them off. Since my negatives ratings I've met the best people and have had the best of times. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing you are upset, better yet, don't be. Just be the bigger person.
Petite14u2use
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Mar 14 2025 11:35PM     link to this

I’m confused, is this 2022 problem or a 2025 issue? Lol
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