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Aug 30 2022 05:23PM more by jimmmyz
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There are a lot of guys that don’t show up for appointments. And there are a lot of ladies that take deposits and then are unavailable for appointments. I don’t really have a good answer to this problem. Does anyone have a solution?
      
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ColossusJones
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Aug 30 2022 06:02PM     link to this


Yeah…. Use the fucking network for what it is. Dude doesn’t show up to an appointment? Give him a red in reliability. Then when he racks up 20 reliability negatives and is unable to meet with anyone, maybe he’ll learn his lesson.

And if a chick takes a deposit but doesn’t fulfill her end of the obligation, she’s a rob.got the money but didn’t earn it? Sounds like a ROB to me.

Frankbear22
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Aug 30 2022 06:25PM     link to this

Khan would love Trump to make a massive deposit between his butt cheeks
longwalker
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Aug 30 2022 07:38PM     link to this

So would sherkahn the communist^
Gbannana
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Aug 30 2022 11:42PM     link to this

Colossus did a mic drop! Problem solved!
Next issue please.
1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 05:27AM     link to this

Good morning everyone! Can someone please contact me, admin? Thank you. Apparently someone in charge of money/financials ON HERE must not care for me much OR not know what they are doing because it is technically stealing considering how much (i wrote a pm shortly ago since even though it took my money for about A YEARS WORTH OF MAIL- it gave me NOT ONE AND SAYS I AM NEGATIVE 1500 something!??! Wow. Proof/screenshots etc or IT NEVER happened. But on tol
Topic as well- just me but I do not ask for a deposit ever but I do screen.
Also I have amazing reviews and I have been around for a while now here to where why… what the…? Hater(s)? Idk. But that sucks. Contact me. Be solid. This is why I don’t come on here too often when I want to and should! I don’t deserve to pay for like a years worth of mail etc. and I have it all (yes duly noted and screenshot) taken my money YET- I cannot read mail or write it privately sooo here I am! Help. so here I am writing this in public that sucks … BTW hi everyone … nothin but love and miss some of you hahaha .. seems personal but whatever. Grumpy- muah! 😘🤘💯
I wrote a msg to admin on contact form and you can see for yourself in my account what I’m sayin. Kk? Thanx. No deposit haha. Xo, Devin in Vegas
TaylorSoSpunky
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Aug 31 2022 08:41AM     link to this

I don't require deposits but be honest with me , if you are not going to show up.
1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 08:52AM     link to this

Ok FCUK! I can�t use anything. Hater, what the� can someone assist this is ridiculous thank u!
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Plz take down after you see or can help thanx
yyzed
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Aug 31 2022 08:55AM     link to this

Every time you log onto HX, you agree that this website urges all website users not to use the Network Rating system to decide whether to meet any other website Users.

Guys rate guys and somehow ladies think they are trustworthy. lol





1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 09:07AM     link to this

Whoever is admin and can see the transactions please help so I do nott have to post in a freakin public forum- i paid for ALOT of months and all today cause it was not going thru- they ALL went through and I CANNOT READ ANY PRIVATE msgs or anything hence why Hence i am here and apologize but why is that happening? Grumpy etc- It charged me like 6 times and now says I have negative points instead of being able to access my mail/profile etc BUUUT I can post HERE? Fml
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SeymourButz
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Aug 31 2022 09:18AM     link to this

I know your frustrated by why are you Grumpy.
SeymourButz
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Aug 31 2022 09:23AM     link to this

I bet it has to do with the email address you have for verification or perhaps the form of payment.
Scenario: the cc you are using is not recognized by the system and the email address does not match?
Just a looney stab at what may be taking place.
It's rare that this happened to you so many times.
1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 09:29AM     link to this

NOT THE CASE. I HAVE HAD THE POINTS in my account - MY PAYMENTS were all legit. And in my account. I kept trying to press the “unlock mail” and it would not work. Now, It shows (proof) on my account page that it did IN FACT charge me about 5 or 6 times today all in a row all the sudden so I can check my mail etc- BUT…. Nope. I can’t. This sucks. Help? Thanks so much for the help btw but it literally put me negative -1500+ yet still locked out of mail etc. what the hellll? Thanx .. sheesh
AFMadness
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Aug 31 2022 09:49AM     link to this

Did you send in a Support ticket to the Admins ?
SeymourButz
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Aug 31 2022 10:19AM     link to this

Man you got problems if your seeing 40 or 50 people a day.
1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 10:24AM     link to this

Oh MAAAAANNNN…. I’d be a ballin hot mess like WHOA! No disrespect I swear- I can barely get out of my apt to see one… so I’m not bragging
SeymourButz
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Aug 31 2022 10:25AM     link to this

I was like "GATDAMMM"
1inamilliLA
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Aug 31 2022 10:28AM     link to this

Oh well thank you girl you are the shit and see that is why she is able to help people like me and I hope I didn’t offend you by the way you’re beautiful and she sent me points because I cannot believe admin has not helped obviously someone has something against me and people I have not even met have helped me be able to access my mail again and nothing but the upmost respect and appreciation thank you!!!!❤️
suave88
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Aug 31 2022 10:37AM     link to this

That's a firm no on deposits. Just asking for trouble
TheMatrixx
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Aug 31 2022 10:44AM     link to this

Deposit beggers are part of this entitlement generation who think somebody owes them something

Then they wonder why they have nothing. Stop begging for deposits and go out an "earn" your money.



Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 10:45AM     link to this

Make sure youre doing your research on the provider of your booking. Check if they have established reviews on multiple sites, active social media, and preferably their own website.
All these super hot girls with low rates saying anything goes but they need a deposit are almost always a scam
SeymourButz
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Aug 31 2022 10:55AM     link to this

Goddam no wonder your the Matrix. You're a 3 dimensional asshole talking like that.
Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 11:01AM     link to this

People pay deposits in a lot of service industries. It’s to avoid wasting our time, not entitlement.
But actually .. yes if I’m going to f*ck you (a stranger) I think I’m entitled to some proof of commitment lol
Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 11:06AM     link to this

I only require deposits for outcalls and no/new profiles
TheMatrixx
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Aug 31 2022 11:10AM     link to this

Don't compare yourself to a legit business registered with the state (which you are not)

Those deposits have ways of being recouped and an agreement or contract signed beforehand

You think you chicks provide ways of recouping deposits.. don't think so








Justify
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Aug 31 2022 11:21AM     link to this

never been asked for a deposit, and dont know if I would pay it if asked politely...I wish the deposit could be held in "escrow", just for the fact if you get to the location and the provider has either done a bait and switch or is nothing at all like the photos, then I have np problem at losing the deposit and walking away...but if you are asking for face verification, I think Im entitled to the same courtesy...just my .02
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Aug 31 2022 11:28AM     link to this

Deposits would never be a problem if it weren't for the scam artists who've come before and ripped people off. So ladies, don't be mad at us for not wanting to deposit, be mad at the scammy ones before you that have broken the trust.
TheMatrixx
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Aug 31 2022 11:28AM     link to this

It's not about being burned a deposit is supposed to be done through a contract set of terms

and have ways for both parties to be able recoup funds in the event one party doesn't fulfill there obligation

Anything short of that is just another form of begging for money. People get burned all the time what you think somebody deserves a deposit every time they get burned or lose money on something


That is the ultimate form of entitlement
big1234
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Aug 31 2022 11:29AM     link to this

A request for a deposit automatically rules out anyone who doesn't want to leave an electronic trail.
Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 12:01PM     link to this

All the level 0’s with their anti-sex worker opinions makes me lol
Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 12:02PM     link to this

Online gift cards are crypto are discreet options for deposit fyi
Fijissecret
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Aug 31 2022 12:02PM     link to this

And crypto *
TheMatrixx
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Aug 31 2022 01:26PM     link to this

If you're looking for a deposit you won't find it on this site you better get your crypto money from PD

PD is where all the delusional entitled women go to in mass don't bring that nonsense over here
jimmmyz
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Aug 31 2022 02:05PM     link to this

Interesting discussion. The reason I started the blog, was that someone who I wanted to see asked me for a small deposit. That was the first time that I had been asked by someone other than an obvious scam person who was in quarantine.
Zeros
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Aug 31 2022 02:20PM     link to this

I, for one, would never agree to a deposit. I don't care if its anonymous or not. Any "contract" that someone could write would have 0 merit. So you ghost me after getting the deposit, this "contract" would do what exactly?


Answer: Absolutely nothing.


And yes, I am speaking from a place where I have agreed to this 1 time and got scammed. I marked it up as a learning experience that cost me $100.


Old saying "one bad apple ruins the bunch" is why I don't trust it. Levels be dammed.



It is the Charlie question when you do the 2 minute rating. Would I trust someone I met here once with their friend for $1000? I have only ever said Yes to this once, and that person is no longer here.




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Aug 31 2022 03:31PM     link to this

Solution is simple. Don't give a deposit. Any guy who does will be back on here a month later complaining about how she took his deposit and never answered his texts blah blah.
kxttylikes2lick
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Aug 31 2022 03:59PM     link to this

I wish there was a yellow rating not good not bad just someone who you wouldn’t recommend either hygiene being late being a flake always talking never actually meeting someone to rough etc.
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Aug 31 2022 04:53PM     link to this

@ jimmmys
There are a lot of girls that don�t show up for appointments. I have solution for this.
Guys start asking ladies for same reasons they are asking for deposit.
I would be fair answer to is.
Let�s see how will they feel!!
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Aug 31 2022 04:56PM     link to this

* asking for deposit
Sorry
TheMatrixx
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Aug 31 2022 05:09PM     link to this

Ladies say no haggling

Men say no deposits

Those are two firm NOs
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