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Blond_32dd_Barbi
Long Beach, LA, CA
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Searching to find the most beneficial balance...
Sep 5 2019 08:34PM more by Blond_32dd_Barbi
Tags: Orange County, Random (All tags)

Life throws some serious shit at us. I find myself constantly trying to prevent or figure this magic answer or better yet solution in preventing the unexpected..
...maybe I'm beginning to realize the unexpected in inevitable and the answer isnt stressing out or getting overwhelmed by life's unexpecteds but I guess being aware of how I react when problems arise..... Expect the unexpected... Always. And just be prepared to expect the worst and hope for the best..... Yeeeaayyuuuu.
... Riddle me that. Lol
      
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artnjazz
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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Sep 5 2019 08:56PM     link to this

Let's solve it together
MUNK
Santa Cruz, Central Coast, CA
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Sep 6 2019 08:54AM     link to this

Life is easier when you have a penis


Get one girl






Then call me
lachineseguy
SGV, LA, CA
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Sep 6 2019 10:15AM     link to this

money doesnt solve everything, but it sure fixes a lot of BS

if you have some money saved up it really helps with the unexpected.
loucfirr1
LA, CA
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Sep 6 2019 11:17AM     link to this

As long as it's black!
Mozis
Pomona, Inland Empire, CA
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Sep 6 2019 11:52AM     link to this

life is a bitch
Pjforfun
Austin, TX
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since Jul 6 2007

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Sep 6 2019 01:43PM     link to this

Sweet Girl. You have just defined existentialism.
CoachMila
Irvine, OC, CA
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Sep 6 2019 08:37PM     link to this

You are the happiest when there are NO expectations.

Be present at the moment.

Period.
lamar
SGV, LA, CA
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Sep 6 2019 11:15PM     link to this

One of my top priorities is to remove any problems that occur in my life. I've been told that you can expect your friends to fuck you over every now and then. I disown people who cause problems for me. I do have one relative that I try to keep at a distance even though she hit me up for money every few months. She fucked over my sister big time, that's why I keep distance and never give her more than $50 at a time. I think I'm the only one in the family she hasn't fucked over yet.
CloaknDagger
Garden Grove, OC, CA
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Sep 8 2019 10:29AM     link to this

People rarely look hard in the mirror in a quest to un-eff themselves. And if they do not bother looking that hard to (even) improve themselves, then they are kept at a distance until they do.
trailblazer287
Glendale, SFV, LA, CA
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May 10 2022 07:25AM     link to this

Its always how you react to a situation that determines the outcome..
bwana
Santa Monica, LA, CA
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May 10 2022 01:08PM     link to this

The dead thread comes back to life. I'm sure OP has solved whatever issues she had back in 2019.
OCCityBoy2
Santa Ana, OC, CA
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May 10 2022 03:23PM     link to this

Miss Barbi,
What you seek and desire is called, STABILITY.
I have stable life. How do I know?

Almost nothing changes from day-to-day.
Days blend endless loop. it was not easy.
I lived payday to payday. Lived below my means.
Cut out the unnecessary. Be frugal.
Set up priorities. Hard rules for myself.
Self-discipline. Sacrifice.
Slowly, I rose from the mire and muck.
I have stability. Even if I get surprised by the unexpected, I may stumble, but I don't fall. I find a point of stability, dust myself off, and get back on the road I know. Good luck. I hope a rainbow leads you by day, and the stars guide you by night.
macncheesy
SGV, LA, CA
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May 10 2022 06:15PM     link to this

Why in the world would someone resurrect a 3 year old thread? Someone was bored and trolling!
Juiicyfruitbri
CA
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May 11 2022 11:47AM     link to this

Literally just happened to me … i hate time wasters
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