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TheOrchidGoddess
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What are your thoughts regarding "unicorns"?
Sep 10 2018 01:59AM more by TheOrchidGoddess
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I currently have 2 friends that are looking for a unicorn to join their relationship. They, a male and a female, want me to be with both of them. I have never tried a trio relationship. What if jealousy issues arise? ANd since they both have already been together for a year, won't that make me just the side? I want things to be fair and equal. Im confused how to go about all this.
      
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mjcjmjcj
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Sep 10 2018 02:25AM     link to this

Did you dream of unicorns?
Did you dream of broken horns?
Did you dream of roses or
Did you dream of thorns?
sherkahn
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Sep 10 2018 03:13AM     link to this

Communication is the key, and emotional maturity.

I had mine work for 4 years, but when career started being more important than the relationship for one of the ladies, it fell apart as we talked less and there was more focus on individual goals than the bonds between us.

You would be dealing with two people in a relationship, sonthat’s double the compromises, but potentially double the rewards. And then there is the aspect of your social circle picking sides on any activity (arguments, social events, family gatherings, etc.)

But if the love is therr and communication and compromise can be reached, it can be a wonderful experience.
Grumpy
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Sep 10 2018 06:54AM     link to this

In the past, I've always just used corn. A nice big long corn. Sometimes on sale at Staters.
Benefit is, the husk makes great toilet paper.
Makingiteasy
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Sep 10 2018 07:22AM     link to this

My guess is their relationship is mythical as the Unicorn so go from it. They can pick up the pieces later.
longwalker
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Sep 10 2018 08:53AM     link to this

What she said^
SkurferGurl
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Rachael.Jordan
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Sep 10 2018 10:37AM     link to this

2 is company 3 is a crowd
ColossusJones
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Sep 10 2018 10:45AM     link to this


Love who you want

fuck who you want

sleep with who you want

date who you want

wherever you want

however you want

for as long as you want

so long as the fucking government keeps their fucking noses out of it.

interface
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Sep 10 2018 01:10PM     link to this

Adding sex into the equation is quickest way to end the friendship.
1ronvas
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Sep 10 2018 01:53PM     link to this

Too many cooks in the Kitchen !
Galen
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Sep 10 2018 02:17PM     link to this

Damn one SO is too much why would anyone want multiple...

I don't see any "Unicorns" in this scenario.

Grumpy
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Sep 10 2018 08:07PM     link to this

Imma write a song about.
peregrine
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Sep 10 2018 08:20PM     link to this

keyorisha, you're my hero
sherkahn
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Sep 11 2018 05:48AM     link to this

One last piece of advice. Remember that you are dealing with FLAWED people in your relationship.
No one is perfect and relationship mistakes in these type of situations only get compounded. Be prepared to take great highs and lows.
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